it comes off as corny , and hypocritical
Growing up I seen girls, usually younger black women say ”you cute but u lightskin”to my boy & other lightskin brehs
“I dont date lightskins”
When u come to find out most their celebrity crushes and exes are lightskin.
And my boy ALWAYS got dark/brownskin girls with EASE. Yet they claim they dont light skins.
Imagine saying “you cute but you darkskin”
Truth be told being lightskin was never a disadvantage with women
The females I hear say this are low self esteem and assume since a dude is lightskinned that he will feel he is “better”/cocky or more likely to cheat. It’s an assumed inferiority complex of “he’s too good for me so Ima reject him first”.
And feel like the pretty one in the relationship
Which can be true of any man of any shade but it’s funny how that’s associated with light skin men
2020 the fake lightskin bashing gotta go. It wreaks of an inferiority complex.
tupac "the realist thing" you ever wrote.^^^.
all FACTS and no lies told.
I had light skinned friends that most ladies would deem as attractive to very attractive. I'm right in the middle myself, but to some dark skinned ladies they would at times call me light which was hilarious to me.
But their favorite line was "i dont mess with light skin dudes"... or "why yo boy all stuck up..he just thinks he's all dat cause he light skin" it got so bad, i told this one lady, "obviously you like him, stop frontin and just say it. you ASSUME he's stuck up due to his skin color because you're not light and you know some light skin dudes who are stuck up and you yourself probably put light skin above darker skin unconsciously yourself. I said yes my boy is arrogant, not because his skin color but due to the fact he thinks he's smarter than most people(dude was actually very smart). i explained it had nothing to do with his looks at all. on that front his parents did a great job on him and he never flaunts his looks as his pass. he flaunts his brains. which i always had to tell him to tone down and not be so arrogant even if he was smart. people will figure that out anyway. no reason to tell the world. just show em.
and truth is, unless you're 16 years old. saying you have a preference for skin tone and saying people are and aint your type based on a particular look even though any one from different looks may still be attractive. sounds real teenage-ish to me. always have. anytime a lady started over explaining why she thought me or one of my friends were cute BUT...insert her type she likes better. I knew she was trying not to admit she liked me or that dude that was outside of her little teenage thought of type. even though she was 18+ years old. and when i hear women over 27 saying this I really give them that side eye. like its time to grow up. lol at types. is he attractive to you on the outside or not? YES, then Shut up and see if you like his personality as well. it aint that hard yall.