“When I dated this white guy, I was on my best behavior so I didn’t seem ghetto. I submitted! With black men, I curse them out.”

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Wait, so you do the same as the woman in OP?
No? She seems difficult to be around. When I interact with white women I'm just aloof, trying to get a read on the type of person she is, and scouting for red flags. Which is different than actively being argumentative and hard to deal with. Especially towards your own race.
 

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the "I don't care who she dated in the past " ass nikka's who are dumb enough date/deal with bedwench's



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you think youre going to know who a woman dated? :mjlol:
 

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Guarantee none of you nikkas talk to white women the same as black women if she’s a typical Becky.

Especially if you ain’t beat yet.

We need to show each other the same respect by prioritizing being unapologetically our best selves when dealing with each other
I talk to everyone the same. I can't even imagine having to switch who and how I am based on someone race. But as a brother the opposite effect happens. Especially in my era of youth. If you wasn't tryna be some off brand street dude most brehettes were not checking for you. But the same girls will look for all the attributes they might diss a Black guy for having in a white guy.

This shyt is deep seeded programming. It's fukked up
 

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I'm of the perception that a lot of black men actually like aggressive non-compliant women.

Maybe I'm wrong?
I think in general men are okay with (and attracted to) some pushback from women. I don't think the average poster here wants submissive pushovers besides Tradcon Steven Crowder-Types. Problem is overdosing on Drama/Toxicity is mainstream as if its supposed to be a normal part of a relationship. We also have an overrepresentation of Dominatrix-Like women such as Eboni Reid and Cynthia G trying to humiliate black men as a whole under the guise of "pushing them do do better".

As for the actual example, I noticed that alot when I was in my early-mid 20's working in a college area. I'm tall and have had shoulder-length locs since 2014 so some of women automatically assumed I was hood in some way. Not just some black women, hood White/Puerto Rican women that dated black men. They would not curse directly as me, but bring it up in conversations to test the waters to get a feel of my personality until they realized I wasn't with it. These women know who punching bags and whose not. They're also the same ones usually involved in domestic disputes and I know a couple of their baby daddies are in prison or dead.
 

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I can, black come in too many different shades, shapes and sizes for me to deal with a cave bytch.Plus if you can find a black woman that ain’t had her head fukked up and get her to hold you down. That women will go to the gates of hell for you. Ain’t met a woman out there more loyal than black women once they’re fully invested.
thats women period.
you would know if you dated other races :heh:

an American is an American...
...youre only going to see major cultural differences when it comes to religion and country of orgin.
 
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I feel like some of yall don't understand how deep this white supremacy and programming goes. Movies, TV, posters, corporate settings, presidents, leaders, history, everything points to white people being on top from the moment we're born.

It takes time and effort to deprogram. This woman outright states she's making that progress. WTF you want from her

Maybe we don't. If you're too weak to deal with it, just wash out your bloodline already. The less mentally weak black folks, the better.
 
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