“When I was broke I used to go on dates just to get some food in my belly “- Tiffany Haddish; hundreds of women said they done the same

[LadyJ2]

we’re raising our sons to be HOH so ice cream or coffee on a first date or starve raggedy bytch.

 

[JoelB]

When i was a photographer, i had a model tell me the same thing. Her and her roommate went on tinder dates just for free meals... she was laughing her ass off telling me her stories

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

The most feminist woman I know admitted this to me. She would never paint women in a bad light under any circumstance. But she readily admitted they do this. Only time I ever hear her take ownership of anything.

 

[The Wolf Among You]

Who got that “Women aren’t called losers enough” tweet?

I can’t imagine entertaining someone I don’t like for an Applebee’s 2 for $20.
Take ya’ silly ass home.

 

[At30wecashout]

It's funny that famous women can flap their gums with that talk whilst society as a whole questions why people like Andrew Tate appeal to the young.

I hate the guy as much as the next person with a moral compass, but collectively we need to do a better job of communicating that using men isn't okay so that young boys don't question their sanity.

At now, damn near 40 years of age I understand. Those Andrew Tate types are terrible and are selling absolute garbage to these young men and women who buy into that machismo.

That said as a short breh Who did not have anything special going on, I went through a lottttttttt of shyt with women in my age group from teens through 20s that was absolutely perplexing. To my credit when I was tired of it, I just stopped chasing and started doing things exclusively that I enjoyed. Funny enough, the dismissive and abrasive nature that I sort of adopted as a result got me more positive responses than the other way around. No, not with every woman, but with enough that I learned that all that thoughtful and romantic shyt is for a niche segment, and you practically had to hold all of that until a girl has shown you multiple times through multiple interactions and a few dates that she is worth it. It basically reinforced the good old hard on hose stuff ogs were talking about.

Basically to get to the point, I still entered all of that with a level head and stayed out of the game until I felt less toxic and more ready to open up again. These young dudes are being validated in their toxicity by cats like Tate. It’s made worse by the fact that you were almost guaranteed to get used and led astray by a couple of women during your formative years. Lucky dudes have their Father’s and some levelheaded friends to help them navigate. These new cats get all of their advice from podcasts with ill intentions. This is not to blame the women necessarily, but when guys learned that women run game for whatever reason, there is a good percentage of dudes who turned in the straight scumbags or they lower the floor of effort dudes are willing to put in even for decent girls because they are trying their best to avoid being used. It’s a dirty game and having played it, I’m glad I’m not young anymore in the dating game.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

That's why the first date should never be to a restaurant. My first date go-to's were: walk in the park, a very light hike, carnival/fair, museum, or something along those lines.

There is a good chance you are not going to smash after filling a woman's belly with greasy food. She going to want to go home, take a shyt, shower, and then hop in the bed

 

[KidJSoul]

Or maybe they are pieces of shyt like Andrew tate

Lol some definitely are.

When i was a photographer, i had a model tell me the same thing. Her and her roommate went on tinder dates just for free meals... she was laughing her ass off telling me her stories

another example of how if a man were to say this, he'd get called a misogynist. There are sneaky ass duplicitous women that exist.

Society already knows men aint shyt. But pointing out how women aint shyt doesn't fly anymore since we have tried to become more empathetic to societal misogyny. So women put on angelic faces and act like innocent doves that would never do anything wrong. And gaslight you for pointing it out

At now, damn near 40 years of age I understand. Those Andrew Tate types are terrible and are selling absolute garbage to these young men and women who buy into that machismo.

That said as a short breh Who did not have anything special going on, I went through a lottttttttt of shyt with women in my age group from teens through 20s that was absolutely perplexing. To my credit when I was tired of it, I just stopped chasing and started doing things exclusively that I enjoyed. Funny enough, the dismissive and abrasive nature that I sort of adopted as a result got me more positive responses than the other way around. No, not with every woman, but with enough that I learned that all that thoughtful and romantic shyt is for a niche segment, and you practically had to hold all of that until a girl has shown you multiple times through multiple interactions and a few dates that she is worth it. It basically reinforced the good old hard on hose stuff ogs were talking about.

Basically to get to the point, I still entered all of that with a level head and stayed out of the game until I felt less toxic and more ready to open up again. These young dudes are being validated in their toxicity by cats like Tate. It’s made worse by the fact that you were almost guaranteed to get used and led astray by a couple of women during your formative years. Lucky dudes have their Father’s and some levelheaded friends to help them navigate. These new cats get all of their advice from podcasts with ill intentions. This is not to blame the women necessarily, but when guys learned that women run game for whatever reason, there is a good percentage of dudes who turned in the straight scumbags or they lower the floor of effort dudes are willing to put in even for decent girls because they are trying their best to avoid being used. It’s a dirty game and having played it, I’m glad I’m not young anymore in the dating game.

Thanks for seeing it

 

[At30wecashout]

Thanks for seeing it

Yea I didn't mean to be all long-winded and some of those women are arguing like "Men do it too/first."

Fact: men usually do all the initiating. With that responsibility comes a certain level of resentment especially when you are young and probably spent your last to entertain a chick. I feel for women's plight about men running game but guess what: when I got fukked around on a few times, I was ready to run game too. It's never going to be fair unless women are asking dudes out regularly which is not happening.

So now 50/50 or coffee dates. She better earn that meal.

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

Never let a woman run game on you.