When is it okay to date single moms since thecoli objects to that?

Mirin4rmfar

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I am a childless man...I would only date a single if..

* She is independent, not struggling.
* Has ONE CHILD.
* Dad is completely out of the picture, I mean completely.
 

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I am a childless man...I would only date a single if..

* She is independent, not struggling.
* Has ONE CHILD.
* Dad is completely out of the picture, I mean completely.

Trust me you dont want this. Think about it, if dad is out the picture that means YOU have to step up. He's gonna be asking your for Jordans, ipads, etc. clothes. Get that sleeping with the baby daddy out your head. If the dad is there, that means he pays child support, he picks up the kid to spend time with him consistently.
 

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Trust me you dont want this. Think about it, if dad is out the picture that means YOU have to step up. He's gonna be asking your for Jordans, ipads, etc. clothes. Get that sleeping with the baby daddy out your head. If the dad is there, that means he pays child support, he picks up the kid to spend time with him consistently.

Low chance of me dating one but if I were be with one long term and looking to marry her, I would accept that child as my own AND I wouldn't want another man constantly intefering with that.
 

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I am a childless man...I would only date a single if..

* She is independent, not struggling.
* Has ONE CHILD.
* Dad is completely out of the picture, I mean completely.

I don't object too it dated them before I had kids and when I had kids
Maybe I was lucky never ran into the issues most did but ones I dated had good careers and shyt
Pops wasn't even in kid or kids life
 

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Dad is completely out of picture, ie dead, incarcerated for life, in a whole different country, etc.
If you can get in early...like before the kid is say 2.
If you already have kids, can't have kids, or don't want kids of your own.


That makes up the most ideal situation for me anyway.
 

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I am a childless man...I would only date a single if..

* She is independent, not struggling.
* Has ONE CHILD.
* Dad is completely out of the picture, I mean completely.
Having a father completely out of the picture may be nice but a woman who puts herself in that situation is as suspect as it gets by someone in her situation
 
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