When is it okay to date single moms since thecoli objects to that?

Mirin4rmfar

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I grew up with both parents too and I fully intend on building something similar with whoever which most likely won't be a single mom BUT if I were too...them these three criterias would be unbreakable.
 

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4 rationalizations:

1. You hopelessly fell for her, and she just happens to be "that chick" for you. Can't hate on that.

Most importantly, the last two reasons:
2. She has MAD bread and clearly is on the "I don't need you, but I want you" lifestyle.
3. You have your own kids(best reason)
4. You flabby and sick and you can't find the upgraded, unblemished version (her or better, without the baggage.)

Bottom line, in 99% of circumstances, NO SINGLE MOTHERS, B!
 

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You like kids/ kids tend to love and respect you
You're both older and mature
She knows what she wants (and what she wants is respectable)
She's your soulmate- you have a special unique bond that goes beyond sex
You want a starter family and are family oriented
She has reliable childcare
She's responsible, got her stuff together, is smart, educated, mature and doesn't need you (or outside help from unstable sources)financially
She doesn't have children from multiple men
She loves her kids and it shows

This is all assuming you mean "date" in the traditional sense and not just to smash
 

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Low chance of me dating one but if I were be with one long term and looking to marry her, I would accept that child as my own AND I wouldn't want another man constantly intefering with that.

i had a friend like that. He got mad because the dad was paying child support. If you honestly feel that way, you mine as well go all the way and adopt the child then.
 

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insert yourself into a polygamous situation brehs...beg another ngga for permission to raise his child brehs...
 

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Why would you want the father to be out of the picture completely? That's not fair to the children. So nah.. NEVER for me.

Unless we're the last two people on Earth.. or she's bad as hell and wealthy.
 

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Why would you want the father to be out of the picture completely? That's not fair to the children. So nah.. NEVER for me.

Unless we're the last two people on Earth.. or she's bad as hell and wealthy.

THANK YOU. Because they're insecure as hell thats why. The dad could be dead or even in jail. Guess what, you're still not their dad.
 
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