When men be honest with a woman

[Matt504]

To the people saying that he should've let her know wassup first,...how do you suggest he should've done it?


Her: we she meet up one day
Him: that's cool but we gotta fukk first

He could have told her during the first conversation that he's not looking for anything serious, that implies that he's not looking for a relationship which should also tell her that he's not interested in marriage.

It sure beats "Imma spend money and expect a return on my investment because she knows what I want even though I haven't made it clear....women want to be lied to"

 

[Matt504]

Breh its a numbers game like the Nigerian email scam where they email bomb a shyt load of emails but its always a certain percentage that will believe the scam and respond..its the same with women(men) you trying to fukk......nikkas stay focused on 1 bytch and will spend all his money and energy trying to get that one but if they keep trying they will find someone receptive to what they trying to do. Women love sex too

If you tell women up front that you want to have sex, the women that "love sex" will be down for it and you get to skip all the games and "she knows what's up"

 

[Ain't That Something]

Are we really having an 8 page dissertation on the dating habits of the millenials based on a videos that was clearly meant to be funny

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

So a nikka take you the local park and got you something to eat from the corner bodega like some chocolate chip cookies, Wise salt n vinegar potato chips and some cheap ass C&C soda, give papi $1 and he get back .25cents....you would be ok with it? I think not.

Yep. That actually sounds fun. It's his money who am I to tell him how to spend it.

But I live in DC. These dudes usually like to stunt or do what they normally do. I went out on Saturday. We went to the game (he has season tickets), got drinks at the game (he likes to drink, not really my thing but I do it socially), then he made reservations at a restaurant he has been to at least 5 times, we took Uber to his friends party (it was wack), we took another Uber to a bar, we got drinks and took another Uber back to his car and then he took me home (no sex or contact outside of a hug). I am sure he spent a good $300 (not including the tickets) but it was all things he normally does or enjoys doing so .

 

[Matt504]

Are we really having an 8 page dissertation on the dating habits of the millenials based on a videos that was meant to be funny

This is a dumb ass point that keeps getting raised, it's only a video to begin with because it's art imitating life, only difference is that on average the dude wouldn't have been honest and just played his position until he saw an opportunity to fukk a woman who clearly told him she wasn't interested in sex before marriage, even more dumb is the idea that people should continue doing something because they've done something in the past, nikkas are seriously suggesting that she shouldn't wait for marriage before sex because she's had sex before marriage before but those same nikkas wouldn't extend that reasoning to anything else.

 

[Ain't That Something]

This is a dumb ass point that keeps getting raised, it's only a video to begin with because it's art imitating life, only difference is that on average the dude wouldn't have been honest and just played his position until he saw an opportunity to fukk a woman who clearly told him she wasn't interested in sex before marriage, even more dumb is the idea that people should continue doing something because they've done something in the past, nikkas are seriously suggesting that she shouldn't wait for marriage before sex because she's had sex before marriage before but those same nikkas wouldn't extend that reasoning to anything else.

Lol at this bullshyt, if a woman tells me she ain't letting me fukk I cut her off period if all I was interested in was sex ro begin with. If it's art imitating life breh didn't need to go into that rant

 

[Soon]

If you tell women up front that you want to have sex, the women that "love sex" will be down for it and you get to skip all the games and "she knows what's up"

So true.

Wouldn't it be better to look for women who love having sex?

I do not feel sorry for dudes who try to go after "decent women" and get mad because they are more picky and hard to get.

Most guys know women they can intercourse with, but for some reason they avoid them. I'm too old to be going after a 30 year old women who is hard to get like she is in high school.

This skit is unfunny, unless she was acting like Trina on the phone and then started to act like India.Arie on the date.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

you got a point but even if he did I don't think she(being a certain type of female) would have appreciated his honesty and would prefer to be lied to rather than hearing something so blunt.

Well if you deal with people who enjoy games expect to get played.

One of differences between people who get what they want out of dating and those who don't is standards. If you have them and stick to them no one will play you. When you start to compromise and accept bullshyt you get played.

 

[Matt504]

I can't help but conclude that there are a sizeable portion of women who are pressured into sex because men purposely take them out and overspend because it gives those men extra "bargaining chips" when negotiating for sex. That's the REAL definition of simping, you want her to sympathize with the idea that you deserve something in return for spending money on a night out and trade sex.

These same dudes are vehemently against directly paying for sex because it's a blow to their ego, they get to pretend that the sex was free because "i paid for dinner, not sex"

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I can't help but conclude that there are a sizeable portion of women who are pressured into sex because men purposely take them out and overspend because it gives those men extra "bargaining chips" when negotiating for sex. That's the REAL definition of simping, you want her to sympathize with the idea that you deserve something in return for spending money on a night out and trade sex.

These same dudes are vehemently against directly paying for sex because it's a blow to their ego, they get to pretend that the sex was free because "i paid for dinner, not sex"

^This

 

[Action Mike]

I'm sorry but no. Grow some damn balls. He is "hinting" ? But then you wanna talk about being adults. Grown men don't hint nor expect strangers to kept track of their money. Come on man.

I'm talking about what to do if you find yourself with such a simp.

We've already addressed dudes being upfront. So should be passive? Yes or no.

Let him spend and potentially lash out later because you ignored signs brehettes.

 

[Action Mike]

This shyt made me laugh cause aint nooooooo woman stopping a nikka from spending money once he starts. They gonna milk it and onto the next because even an ugly bytch can command a brigade of nikkas willing to spend money just to get the p*ssy. I fault simps for putting p*ssy on a pedestal and gassing these bytches heads up

Funny thing is I agree, but said it spread responsibility.

She will let you swipe all day

 

[DrHackenbush]

Dude literally talked himself OUTTA p*ssy haha..I know its not real or whatever, but dudes can't be co-signing this sorta behaviour

 

[Ain't That Something]

I can't help but conclude that there are a sizeable portion of women who are pressured into sex because men purposely take them out and overspend because it gives those men extra "bargaining chips" when negotiating for sex. That's the REAL definition of simping, you want her to sympathize with the idea that you deserve something in return for spending money on a night out and trade sex.

These same dudes are vehemently against directly paying for sex because it's a blow to their ego, they get to pretend that the sex was free because "i paid for dinner, not sex"

Lol again more bullshyt from you.

These chick ain't being pressured into sex, they suckering these nikkas into free meals

 

[Soon]

I can't help but conclude that there are a sizeable portion of women who are pressured into sex because men purposely take them out and overspend because it gives those men extra "bargaining chips" when negotiating for sex. That's the REAL definition of simping, you want her to sympathize with the idea that you deserve something in return for spending money on a night out and trade sex.

These same dudes are vehemently against directly paying for sex because it's a blow to their ego, they get to pretend that the sex was free because "i paid for dinner, not sex"

Lol again more bullshyt from you.

These chick ain't being pressured into sex, they suckering these nikkas into free meals

Honestly, its not even that complicated. And I don't blame the woman.

Also, you already know the type of guy who goes out to dinner and spend crazy amount of time with a women and all she has is platonic feelings towards him.

I go off chemistry. And chemistry can not be faked, and women will not go out of their way to fake chemistry.

You can't blame the women or think she is running game, especially if "she loves you like a brother."