When men be honest with a woman

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You're not obligated to let a man hump you because you went on a date with him. It's good to be honest but it's dumb to expect people to put out for you just because they did for someone else. There's nothing wrong with owning your own body. Plus some people should take it as a compliment if someone wants to see them again without sex- it means they enjoyed who they are as a person. You can have sex with anyone, you can't connect with everyone.
nah see you go the game fukked up that's not how it works. levels here brehette

you can be a prude but gotdamn be a prude all the fukking way and also you can be a hoe but be a hoe all the fukkin way

what nikkas hate is inconsistency. oochie wally or one mic. choose one
 

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Dude played himself, spending 200$ on a date with a chick you aint fukked yet.

So many cheaper date options, if the female dont like your cheap date. Tell her, "I dont know you like that yet to take to flyer spots". If a woman complains about your cheap date, it tells you a lot about that female.

If a woman's really, truly feeling you, you can get by with Starbucks or Sonic or even a fukking Wendys 4 for 4 if you just feel cotdamn COMPELLED to spend. If you feel the need to drop significant $ on a date in hopes that it suddenly makes her want you to smash ... then :snoop:.

Again, I know the video is a hypothetical, but still. It really doesn't take all that.
 

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nah see you go the game fukked up that's not how it works. levels here brehette

you can be a prude but gotdamn be a prude all the fukking way and also you can be a hoe but be a hoe all the fukkin way

what nikkas hate is inconsistency. oochie wally or one mic. choose one
So does having sex make you a hoe or not? Are you supposed to be sexually attracted to all men in the same way on the same levels at all times because you had sex once with a guy or several times with several guys? Being a hoe all the way isn't physically possible or logically feasible. Sex drive changes; desires change, life circumstances change. Just because someone doesn't want to have sex as much anymore doesn't mean they are being inconsistent. Be honest they just aren't giving you want you want and it hurts your ego. Forget that she has a life to live on her own terms, huh ?
 

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And this is only relevant to a guy if sex is involved. The genders value different things. Women value spending time and attention and support and communication. Men value sex. Therefore, the average man looks at woman wanting to be around him and connect for the long term minus sex in the same way that the average woman views a man wanting to fukk without trying to establish a long term connection. Like I said, I totally get what you were saying from your perspective. It's just flagrantly wrong when it comes to how guys see things. How would you respond if a guy on here posted the following:

"She should take it as a compliment that a guy wants fukk her and have her suck his dikk without trying to establish a connection. You can talk to and spend time with any chick, every chick isn't gonna let you enter her body."

And we gotta keep it a buck. If a chick is feeling you like that, she is gonna wanna fukk you. Just like if a dude is feeling you like that, he is gonna want to spend quality time.
Because what you said has nothing to do with having value as a person. A man wanting sex isnt a compliment because it says nothing about a person. Men don't ascribe value to sex- it's a physical act to get off. They physically desire it, and yes that has meaning for them but it and of itself it is not meaningful, especially if they intend on leaving the woman after. A more relevant comparison would be women using men for their money.
 

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Frankly, I think most young men just want steady sex and someone to wash our draws.

We're wired different from you women. That's a fact yall are going to have to accept.
That's fine, but can you answer this: would it matter to you if your steady sex partner only kept you around for your dikk and your pocket book? Would you ever want anything more ?
 

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well but at the same time that hoe wasn't serious about being married before having sex....

until after not only fukking but actually having a baby by a person she is no longer with

so her opinion ain't shyt



unless she refuses to be date men she has no intention of fukking

ladies its your responsibility to only date men who get your pussies wet
act like you dont pressure virgins to put out on the first date too, brehs
 

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Dudes are also saying a chick should not go on an expensive date with a guy if she is not looking for anything serious or is not interested in sex.

This is not realistic.

What I'm saying, stop taking every single chick on expensive dates and being so formal.

Im not disagreeing with that.
Im disagreeing on his approach should've been IM JUST TRYNA fukk
 

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So does having sex make you a hoe or not? Are you supposed to be sexually attracted to all men in the same way on the same levels at all times because you had sex once with a guy or several times with several guys? Being a hoe all the way isn't physically possible or logically feasible. Sex drive changes; desires change, life circumstances change. Just because someone doesn't want to have sex as much anymore doesn't mean they are being inconsistent. Be honest they just aren't giving you want you want and it hurts your ego. Forget that she has a life to live on her own terms, huh ?
nah see again consistency, you dont have to like ol boy so you need to tell him from the jump but to string him along just because is some foul shyt and females of my generation do that

very rarely has girl stopped me dead in my tracks to let me know how she REALLY feels about me, and i respect it and in fact i'm grateful for it


to make one dude put in mad work just because you aren't really feeling him is some dog shyt just let homey know so he can up bounce immediately
 

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nah see again consistency, you dont have to like ol boy so you need to tell him from the jump but to string him along just because is some foul shyt and females of my generation do that

very rarely has girl stopped me dead in my tracks to let me know how she REALLY feels about me, and i respect it and in fact i'm grateful for it


to make one dude put in mad work just because you aren't really feeling him is some dog shyt just let homey know so he can up bounce immediately
But you understand that sometimes you don't know if you want to have sex or not? So how can you tell him right off the bat? How is changing your mind inconsistent? We are human breh. Our sex drives aren't always static like yours. It's dependent on a lot of factors whereas men are not.

And granted the video isn't real and is supposed to be comedy, but she told him off the bat she's not having sex anymore without commitment but he ignored that and tried to manipulate her anyway with the mind game of a "date" that was a facade for sex.

In my opinion both sexes are at fault and inconsistent.
 

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I dont see humor.

I see this nicca mad, tried to impress a chick, then realized he wasnt fukking, told his feelings.

I know its jokes, yet how many $200 first dates you gone go on to figure out you not fukking the same night.
 
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