When men be honest with a woman

KinksandCoils

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Sounds like u surround yourself with bums.lol
I know women who eat off their aunties and who I have had to teach to cook and who, no don't work but have kids. So you stop that shyt. Women aren't hard up for food cause everyone with take care of them.
 

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Sex is personal. So why does she need to get so personal with you before you take her out? Oh cause u just want to use her..... Some men ain't shyt and the funny part is a lot of older men I talk to say they ain't shyt too. :francis:
ok thats cool but can you pick a stance?

first you're mad that he took her out and wanted sex now you say he SHOULD take her out if he wants sex :what: And how would he use her if he DOESN'T take her out and just lets her know he wants to fukk?


People know sex is personal for women but instead of trying to understand what's personal for men(our time and money) you just say "men aint shyt" when we express ourselves. Just like a woman isnt obligated to fukk men who spent money on her a man isn't obligated to spend money and time on a woman who would give up sex.
 

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Nope because I don't deal with those type of men but everyone knows nikkas will do that. As for you. You wrote that from personal experience boo
And you didn't? I don't known any dudes like the one you describe. But your were very explicit. I can see through your house so put the stone down.
 

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ok thats cool but can you pick a stance?

first you're mad that he took her out and wanted sex now you say he SHOULD take her out if he wants sex :what: And how would he use her if he DOESN'T take her out and just lets her know he wants to fukk?


People know sex is personal for women but instead of trying to understand what's personal for men(our time and money) you just say "men aint shyt" when we express ourselves. Just like a woman isnt obligated to fukk men who spent money on her a man isn't obligated to spend money and time on a woman who would give up sex.
She don't hear you.
 

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Oh my bad I wasn't aware I wasn't being clear. I said he played himself because he spent 200 paying for a date when he only wanted sex. I think men should be clear with their intentions. If u only want sex let that be known whether or not you trying to pay for dates or not. See some men have no problem taking women out whether they want just sex or they want more. But to be rude to a woman because u played yourself is wrong you could have got a hoe if u were so butthurt over the money. I also said men want sex but they don't want to do shyt for the woman. we both knwo a man not doing shyt for a woman but giving her sex or trying to give her sex is a loser. Am I being clear now?
ok thats cool but can you pick a stance?

first you're mad that he took her out and wanted sex now you say he SHOULD take her out if he wants sex :what: And how would he use her if he DOESN'T take her out and just lets her know he wants to fukk?


People know sex is personal for women but instead of trying to understand what's personal for men(our time and money) you just say "men aint shyt" when we express ourselves. Just like a woman isnt obligated to fukk men who spent money on her a man isn't obligated to spend money and time on a woman who would give up sex.
the shyt ain't hard to understand.
 

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Oh my bad I wasn't aware I wasn't being clear. I said he played himself because he spent 200 paying for a date when he only wanted sex. I think men should be clear with their intentions. If u only want sex let that be known whether or not you trying to pay for dates or not. See some men have no problem taking women out whether they want just sex or they want more. But to be rude to a woman because u played yourself is wrong you could have got a hoe if u were so butthurt over the money. I also said men want sex but they don't want to do shyt for the woman. we both knwo a man not doing shyt for a woman but giving her sex or trying to give her sex is a loser. Am I being clear now?
the shyt ain't hard to understand.

Your contradictory statements are still only coming from the entitled mind of a woman who doesn't understand and doesn't want to understand what a man values.
Everything you're saying revolves around what the woman thinks and wants. You also keep talking about a man being honest, then not using her by going on dates, but telling her he just wants sex, but if he doesn't want to do dates for sex he's a loser, but if he does dates for sex and continues to waste his money he's using her.

This conversation will never go anywhere if you call anything that a man cares about "being butthurt" so we can stop here and i'll just say have a nice day
 

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I'm not contradicting myself you're just not understanding.
Your contradictory statements are still only coming from the entitled mind of a woman who doesn't understand and doesn't want to understand what a man values.
Everything you're saying revolves around what the woman thinks and wants. You also keep talking about a man being honest, then not using her by going on dates, but telling her he just wants sex, but if he doesn't want to do dates for sex he's a loser, but if he does dates for sex and continues to waste his money he's using her.

This conversation will never go anywhere if you call anything that a man cares about "being butthurt" so we can stop here and i'll just say have a nice day
 
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