When shawty is late for a date?

[Lieutenant Daniels]

You "left her on read"?

So instead of calling her out and mentioning that she has a pattern for showing up late or pushing timing back which you find annoying, you decided to be passive aggressive like a woman and "leave her on read"


This is why women do this type of thing to y'all on a regular. Because y'all are so scared to check a chick who is playing around with you.

Honestly if a chick is “playing around with you” she already don’t respect you as a man or your time. “Checking” her ain’t doing shyt but getting you laughed at and looked at as “butt hurt”. Only one takin an L is you. Shorty gon bounce to the next simp without a care. Think calling a flakey women out makes them reflect on their decisions brehs



Might as well leave her on read and keep it movin

 

[Jazzy B.]

Honestly if a chick is “playing around with you” she already don’t respect you as a man or your time. “Checking” her ain’t doing shyt but getting you laughed at and looked at as “butt hurt”. Only one takin an L is you. Shorty gon bounce to the next simp without a care. Think calling a flakey women out makes them reflect on their decisions brehs



Might as well leave her on read and keep it movin

This is a lie and you just sound scared to check a chick.

When you call out a chick for something and tell the woman you won't tolerate whatever it is they'll either adjust or leave.

The fact that you're concerned whether a chick thinks you look "butt hurt" or laughs for calling her out tell me what type of time you're on .

 

[Scaaar]

I would’ve done the same thing as far as canceling the date

I’d prolly still text on some cordial shyt but would not offer to see her again unless she brought it up.

Prolly slowly but surely fade away move on to another chick.

Or just ghost and never respond, depending on the situation.

That's my go to. If they messed up the first date it's on them to make amends. She's on the chopping block so just evaluate how she moves. She said she was sorry now she has to show it in her actions. But until then just slowly pull back until you find a replacement.

 

[Scaaar]

I've cancelled on a chick just for saying she's going to be 30 mins late. She used to mention how she's always late but that don't matter to me. I could have slotted that time to someone else. Wasting someone's time is the most disrespectful thing a person can do. Especially if it's a first date. Call her out on it.

 

[Swirv]

she did hit me like 2 hours later, like "don't be mad" with all these heart emojis

and I knew I could salvage the night but I didn't want to at that point - disdain and doubt crept into my heart. If I see her, I'm going to have to disrespect her and be a goon with her from now on. I tried to change my ways but they don't want that.

If you made progress in your personal development, why would you throw it away because of a situation with this flake?

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

You "left her on read"?

So instead of calling her out and mentioning that she has a pattern for showing up late or pushing timing back which you find annoying, you decided to be passive aggressive like a woman and "leave her on read"


This is why women do this type of thing to y'all on a regular. Because y'all are so scared to check a chick who is playing around with you.

Why waste time and energy "checking" her?

She's not into him and she's not gonna change

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

- disdain and doubt crept into my heart. If I see her, I'm going to have to disrespect her and be a goon with her from now on. I tried to change my ways but they don't want that.

A villian has been born !

and we say welcome…brother

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

This is a lie and you just sound scared to check a chick.

When you call out a chick for something and tell the woman you won't tolerate whatever it is they'll either adjust or leave.

The fact that you're concerned whether a chick thinks you look "butt hurt" or laughs for calling her out tell me what type of time you're on .

Nah respectfully you reaching, stop being dense. If they RESPECT you ain’t no checking need to be done, they’d be apologizing trying to reschedule quickly. If she’s constantly flaking/playing games she don’t RESPECT you. Simple concept. No amount of calling out is gonna make a chick magically respect you cause you stood on your square. The time I’m on is if she’s not cooperative I’m on to the next. Nothing to do with being “scared”. Apart of being a man is moving forward.

You in your feelings “checking” chicks let’s me know what time YOU on sir.

 

[Doobie Doo]

Why waste time and energy "checking" her?

She's not into him and she's not gonna change

Exactly, if a woman really pisses me off I learned to just ignoring her and move on. I don't want to check her or say anything that's going to help her be better for the next man.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Been kicking it with this younger chic. She’s cool and so I decided to take her somewhere nice. We set a date and time - now I know she is usually on Caribbean time , so I set the reservation and hour later than the time we decided .

She then does that “oh can we push it back” thing a couple of time . I ended up just canceling the reservation and just leaving her on read the rest Of the night .

Maybe I’m tripping - as I get older I just get less patience for b.s. and my time is precious .

I would say what I did instead but don’t want to be seen in a negative light

You did the right thing. I had a chick pull that twice before. The first time I let it slide, the second time she texted saying she was going to be running 30min late when I had already pulled up. I left the spot and never responded to her text messages the rest of the night. I guess she pulled up and was looking for me and got mad , she later apologized though and understood why I did that.

 

[blockburna420]

I only read the op , but she a flop. Clearly you interested, I don't see a problem with you holding it against as long you let her know. Punctuality is my biggest pet peeve.

 

[old pig]

I’ll continue reading but I’m curious to know how old she is…depending on that I wouldn’t do anything formal at least not early on

 

[old pig]

You goofed trying to to do something nice for a young chick you are just casual with.

yep.

 

[Astroslik]

You "left her on read"?

So instead of calling her out and mentioning that she has a pattern for showing up late or pushing timing back which you find annoying, you decided to be passive aggressive like a woman and "leave her on read"


This is why women do this type of thing to y'all on a regular. Because y'all are so scared to check a chick who is playing around with you.

Why call her out? Ghost her since she don’t respect his time

 

[BigTyme Records]

Reading this thread


TF I gotta check somebody who don’t even value my time?

bytch you ain’t worth the energy I’m on to the next