When she asks you questions with no right answer..

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lol I tried to dodging that shyt for a min but she wouldn’t let that dumb ass question go. Like I’ll change the convo, then 5 mins later “but back to my question , you never gave me a straight forward answer. You can be honest with me, I’m not sensitive “..then I finally just tell her what it is and she’s ACTING like everything is good but whole time her face looking like she trying to hold back a tear. That dumb shyt blows my mind bruh
Most fat people are mentally ill. Look at Lizzo.

You're wasting your time dodging a question when you can just tell the bytch to shut the fukk up or ask someone else that dumb ass question.
 

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See you have to get up on your reverse psychology game. My first response would've been, why does it matter? Are you happy with how look?(but before she even answer I'd say) I'm happy with how you look, you sexy as fukk to me and thats all that matters.
She just wanted some confirmation that she was attractive to you to boost her self esteem. What would it hurt to tell her some good shyt if you enjoy the perks of what she giving you? Now you ass'd out lol

Bruh you right as fukk. When keeping it real goes wrong smh. I’ll just have to find another girl who’s on the same type of time as her minus the big body lol
 

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Bruh you right as fukk. When keeping it real goes wrong smh. I’ll just have to find another girl who’s on the same type of time as her minus the big body lol
Yup just learn from it and apply what you learned to the new situation
 

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Look man…

Unless a woman has a legit mental illness…FAT PEOPLE KNOW THEY ARE FAT…

She wanted you to confirm it because

#1 she has low self esteem…

#2 she knows this is just a friends with benefits that’s going nowhere…

#3 women can only have sex, cook, and pamper a nikka for so long before they catch feelings…

#4 I’m pretty sure you don’t go out in public with her, WHICH SHE REALIZES cause she knows she’s fat and your embarrassed to be seen with her, she just needed your confirmation before she gave you the, “So where are we going with this, I know what you said from the beginning but I want more.”

:mjlol:

By acknowledging that you thought she was fat was the confirmation she needed that the relationship between y’all was going nowhere and only going to be an occasional UFC ground and pound; hence why she has ghosted you after you told her what she needed to hear after pressing you about her weight for so long.

You have to know how to read between the lines bruh :mjlol:
 

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This is also why it's good to be "shallow". Op i don't know if you love BBWs or not, but this is why it's not worth dating someone that is unattractive/insecure. You find yourself getting roped into fukkery like this :ufdup: literally
 

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Look man…

Unless a woman has a legit mental illness…FAT PEOPLE KNOW THEY ARE FAT…

She wanted you to confirm it because

#1 she has low self esteem…

#2 she knows this is just a friends with benefits that’s going nowhere…

#3 women can only have sex, cook, and pamper a nikka for so long before they catch feelings…

#4 I’m pretty sure you don’t go out in public with her, WHICH SHE REALIZES cause she knows she’s fat and your embarrassed to be seen with her, she just needed your confirmation before she gave you the, “So where are we going with this, I know what you said from the beginning but I want more.”

:mjlol:

By acknowledging that you thought she was fat was the confirmation she needed that the relationship between y’all was going nowhere and only going to be an occasional UFC ground and pound; hence why she has ghosted you after you told her what she needed to hear after pressing you about her weight for so long.

You have to know how to read between the lines bruh :mjlol:

fukk this is cold but true :wow:

And it's proof of what I mean literally above :mjgrin:

She knows you don't really like how she looks. He don't even drive to her, she drives to him.

Word to fetty wap:

"He ain't ever take you out, barely even left your house!"
 

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Look man…

Unless a woman has a legit mental illness…FAT PEOPLE KNOW THEY ARE FAT…

She wanted you to confirm it because

#1 she has low self esteem…

#2 she knows this is just a friends with benefits that’s going nowhere…

#3 women can only have sex, cook, and pamper a nikka for so long before they catch feelings…

#4 I’m pretty sure you don’t go out in public with her, WHICH SHE REALIZES cause she knows she’s fat and your embarrassed to be seen with her, she just needed your confirmation before she gave you the, “So where are we going with this, I know what you said from the beginning but I want more.”

:mjlol:

By acknowledging that you thought she was fat was the confirmation she needed that the relationship between y’all was going nowhere and only going to be an occasional UFC ground and pound; hence why she has ghosted you after you told her what she needed to hear after pressing you about her weight for so long.

You have to know how to read between the lines bruh :mjlol:
You're wrong. She knows she's fat but she wanted to hear him say she isn't, so she'd have an ego boost. On some "maybe i'm not THAT fat" :gladbron: type shyt.
 

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I woulda said "Hell naw, you thick and juicy" :takedat: or some shyt like that. NEVER EVER EVER call a woman fat.
i think tact is important but if they are pushing and obviously trying to start something, you gotta show them you're not scared to go all the way. Like i said in my other post, i would have told her she's not petite but still complement her. But if she would have pushed further to me that's malicious intent and it has to be nipped in the bud. So after she pushes for and answer, i would have pulled a Kevin Samuels. Would have gotten the laptop and cast on the big screen. Asked for her height and weight then search for the BMI infront of her. And would have told her that she is obese if it's the case. And yes, im dead serious. I don't like when people play. As far as her saying "how could you say that?" I would throw it right back in her face and tell her "at least now you know I'll tell you the truth. If you dont want the truth, either don't ask or go with a dude that will lie to your face to keep your affection. It's up to you.". Stop letting these people disturb your peace with their insecurities. It's not about her being fat or hurting her feelings. It's about her learning to control her mouth and what she brings up to you. Dudes need to stop acting like TV dads, scared to check their girls acting out bad TV tropes. She has to learn dude isn't the one and if she bounces, good riddance.
 

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that’s a bar. you are right on that. If I could go back I would’ve just told her what it was from the jump. I been out the game for a min so I gotta hold that L. But last thing I’m gonna do is chase down and simp for a big girl who just came through and got dug out. Imma just fall back and let time do it’s thing. I’ve got some others I’m working on in the meantime . Just hoping the others cooperate and are as easy of a smash as she was. That was a good ass response tho bruh.
props breh. you doing your thing and that's how the rust will come off. we all do it to some extent breh. We all try to buy peace from time to time thinking the girl is on our side/also wants peace.let her stay in her polluted mind.
 
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