When she asks you questions with no right answer..

[Regular Developer]

This happened to me once. This was probably my "wait a second, I might actually be ok with the ladies" moment.

Basically the same question, while we were hugged up in the jacuzzi. I told her she could lose some weight, and she immediately backed away and said pretty much the same thing. I got that sinking feeling in my chest that lets you know , but instead of trying to apologize, I just responded annoyingly, "Then don't ask me that question". I was actually going to get ready to head back to my room, but she came back and she apologized. And then she wouldn't let me go anywhere without her for the rest of the night :/. At that point in my life, it was the most didn't make sense thing that happened with me and a girl.

Edit: So my lesson learned is to just be honest when they ask one of those questions. Kind of a thing I picked up from Patrice Oneal/Beige Philip

 

[Turbulent]

This happened to me once. This was probably my "wait a second, I might actually be ok with the ladies" moment.

Basically the same question, while we were hugged up in the jacuzzi. I told her she could lose some weight, and she immediately backed away and said pretty much the same thing. I got that sinking feeling in my chest that lets you know , but instead of trying to apologize, I just responded annoyingly, "Then don't ask me that question". I was actually going to get ready to head back to my room, but she came back and she apologized. And then she wouldn't let me go anywhere without her for the rest of the night :/. At that point in my life, it was the most didn't make sense thing that happened with me and a girl.

Edit: So my lesson learned is to just be honest when they ask one of those questions. Kind of a thing I picked up from Patrice Oneal/Beige Philip

exactly. Lying makes you look like a kid who doesn't want to be punished for saying the wrong thing. It's what females do. Feminine behavior. Saying the truth without trying to hurt her is always the best way to go.

 

[Piff Perkins]

Should have hit her with that Shallow Hal mind game and pretend like she’s not fat.

 

[invalid]

You never tell women the truth. If they ask you a question that any way you answer will end in an ‘L’, always go with the answer that is a lie.

 

[Voice of Reason]

let me explain why you should never smash a fat/ugly chick

 

[wenis]

What does it matter?

go find another one.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

that’s a bar. you are right on that. If I could go back I would’ve just told her what it was from the jump. I been out the game for a min so I gotta hold that L. But last thing I’m gonna do is chase down and simp for a big girl who just came through and got dug out. Imma just fall back and let time do it’s thing. I’ve got some others I’m working on in the meantime . Just hoping the others cooperate and are as easy of a smash as she was. That was a good ass response tho bruh.

How you meet her breh?

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Why the fukk women ask you shyt where both answers is an L?

for example, I smashed a big girl last weekend (her throat game crazy and the box on point). She cool people , brings food for a nikka and she comes to me whenever I text her so I ain’t gotta deal with traffic , never had to take her on any dates or spend any money on her.

Red bone with locs but she a big bytch. Like big titties , big booty, big stomach , big legs , big arms

I finish round 1 and we laid up and this bytch gonna ask me “do you think I’m fat?” So I try and redirect the convo multiple times but she keeps bringing it back to her being a big bytch…which we both know she is.

this the 3rd time she came over and out the blue she hits me with this question. Mind you , I’m
pretty lit lol. She start hitting me with the “keep it real with me” and “I ain’t sensitive I want to hear the truth”….so at this point if I say no, we both know it’s an obvious lie and now I look like a fraud . If I say yes now her feelings about to get hurt and I probably lose that guaranteed free sex.

They always say honestly is the best policy right ?
So after 30 mins of interrogation I got annoyed and told that bytch straight up “ yes I think your fat”…rest of the night was weird, she kept saying shyt like “how could you say that? And I can’t believe you called me fat”

ain’t heard from her since other than “I made it home safe”.

coli brethran, how do y’all handle these dumb ass questions with no right answer? And before y’all say leave these fat hoes alone , I know . When you in a drought sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do if it falls in your lap

Calling a woman fat or implying she's fat or making any indication related to such.. just never do it.

Conversationally its like "the floor is lava"

The right answer is very difficult. I will give it a shot.

"I think you're sexy as Hell. Love those huge titties. Love that ass.."

? Sumn. Like that. Just never come out with it.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

See you have to get up on your reverse psychology game. My first response would've been, why does it matter? Are you happy with how look?(but before she even answer I'd say) I'm happy with how you look, you sexy as fukk to me and thats all that matters.
She just wanted some confirmation that she was attractive to you to boost her self esteem. What would it hurt to tell her some good shyt if you enjoy the perks of what she giving you? Now you ass'd out lol

OP :

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Should told her

" I can help you lose 10pounds"

 

[Commish]

Bait questions are annoying...

I wish people will grow up and stop playing games! Smh..

 

[Turbulent]

Calling a woman fat or implying she's fat or making any indication related to such.. just never do it.

Conversationally its like "the floor is lava"

The right answer is very difficult. I will give it a shot.

"I think you're sexy as Hell. Love those huge titties. Love that ass.."

? Sumn. Like that. Just never come out with it.

why not tell her the truth?

 

[Yaboysix]

We gotta find a new word for “Fat” for the cute girls... Fat may be Precious..

 

[8WON6]

This is where women need to be honest with each other and tell each other they're fat and stop sabotaging situations like this with men. One of her homegirls should be the one telling her the truth and hitting the gym with her. And this is a good example of women not having good social skills, not realizing you're throwing a question-hand-grenade to a man...OP is right in that there was no correct answer.

 

[K1ngScorp]

How you meet her breh?

That bumble app