When she breaks up with you but she still hits you up and wanna be friends?
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Sounds like this to me
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I bet those texts she sends you be totally platonic while she sends filth to the guy she's attracted to. And women don't break up with men they're attracted to. Being a simp friend to her won't build attraction.
Bless't
Living the dream
Emo-leeching is what I call it.
Some people don't want the "hassle" of being with you, but they want the benefits that come from basking in the warmth of your personality and charm. The way you make them feel. The peace you provide them. The sense of ease and comfort. The laughs and the good time. The connection.
Turns out, you are a lot more valuable as a decent human being beyond what's between ur legs. Whoda thunk it.
They might have left you because something about your spirit challenged them to be better and you tolerate no foolishness. So if they were an emotional coward, they shipped out but still want the benefits of you without putting in the effort of what it takes to be with you even as they recognize you are worth it.
If I were you, I would be as blunt about this as possible with them. Let them know they aren't worthy of being in your inner circle in any capacity b/c they aren't deserving of the privilege. Your social currency is priceless and You only want real people around you and not leeches.
Then block them on every avenue and continue living and loving and enjoying life.
(Watch out for them if they crazy b/c that slow existential burn can fester in some people when they bytch card is pulled.)
And bruh, stop asking for the ladies opinion... they gonna tell u some bullshyt...,not cause they are terrible human beings... nah, just because they don't understand their own nature., so they gonna tell u some bullshyt but they really believe it tho,..
Check out Tater's responses... (no disrespect tater)
Damn you said my name twice and couldn’t find the @ sign.
Once again y’all ask opinions and tell us what our opinion is. Why ask a woman’s opinion when so many of your male counterparts already now what we think? I don’t know my own nature,
? I’ve known me for 28 years, but somehow a poster on an Internet forum knows me so well. Y’all wonder why no women post here...it’s okay when the woman’s opinion lines up with yours a la @Booksnrain. No offense, but I guarantee her and I have completely different dating experiences. I’m in no way shape or form lacking male attention or someone I can emotionally leech off. A sucker is born everyday, I don’t get any satisfaction out of manipulating people I care about. If I wanted to use someone and discard them it wouldn’t be an ex that I built a real relationship with.
It’s not like exes being friends is some uncommon phenomenon and women initiate it all the time. You spend years with someone and now it’s just fukk it? I’ll never speak to you again because our romance didn’t pan out (for reasons y’all have NO clue about). I’m not out here stringing along guys I “dated” for three months. Yes y’all have emotions tied up together, that’s how relationships and friendships work. I am a multifaceted person with other motivations than to keep around someone to emotionally mooch off of and manipulate. I also have an emotional range and it’s not all jealousy and attention seeking. I usually don’t date lames so they have other women they talk to, I’m not an idiot. Maybe I have some value, but if we’re not fukking anymore I’m useless. I know that’s how some of you feel though
.Not every woman is a delusional sociopath like y’all want to make out who’s out to steal your soul while she harvests them waiting for Godrick good dikk the 6 foot Tupac in a business suit.
What can I say I’m a dope person, sims guys want to talk to me and fukk. How terrible
.Your experiences may vary, and who would have thought? Us not being the same and all...
Please whatever u do, dont take this post or advice seriously fellas.Damn you said my name twice and couldn’t find the @ sign.
Once again y’all ask opinions and tell us what our opinion is. Why ask a woman’s opinion when so many of your male counterparts already now what we think? I don’t know my own nature,
Y’all wonder why no women post here...it’s okay when the woman’s opinion lines up with yours a la @Booksnrain. No offense, but I guarantee her and I have completely different dating experiences. I’m in no way shape or form lacking male attention or someone I can emotionally leech off. A sucker is born everyday, I don’t get any satisfaction out of manipulating people I care about. If I wanted to use someone and discard them it wouldn’t be an ex that I built a real relationship with.
It’s not like exes being friends is some uncommon phenomenon and women initiate it all the time. You spend years with someone and now it’s just fukk it? I’ll never speak to you again because our romance didn’t pan out (for reasons y’all have NO clue about). I’m not out here stringing along guys I “dated” for three months. Yes y’all have emotions tied up together, that’s how relationships and friendships work. I am a multifaceted person with other motivations than to keep around someone to emotionally mooch off of and manipulate. I also have an emotional range and it’s not all jealousy and attention seeking. I usually don’t date lames so they have other women they talk to, I’m not an idiot. Maybe I have some value, but if we’re not fukking anymore I’m useless. I know that’s how some of you feel though
Not every woman is a delusional sociopath like y’all want to make out who’s out to steal your soul while she harvests them waiting for Godrick good dikk the 6 foot Tupac in a business suit.
What can I say I’m a dope person, sims guys want to talk to me and fukk. How terrible
Your experiences may vary, and who would have thought? Us not being the same and all...
I beg you.
Yea...because you’re such stand up guy people need to model their behavior after. I’m not surprised women would want to treat you like shyt.
Elle Driver
Veteran
She wannabe ya f*ck buddy.
Lmao! The funny thing is my ex tried to do this to me. You wanna rip and run the streets and be a dog but you still wanna try and be all up under me on some friend shyt while still trying me. I think sometimes you can be friends with exes if maybe you just not right for one another and there is no tension.Damn you said my name twice and couldn’t find the @ sign.
Once again y’all ask opinions and tell us what our opinion is. Why ask a woman’s opinion when so many of your male counterparts already now what we think? I don’t know my own nature,
Y’all wonder why no women post here...it’s okay when the woman’s opinion lines up with yours a la @Booksnrain. No offense, but I guarantee her and I have completely different dating experiences. I’m in no way shape or form lacking male attention or someone I can emotionally leech off. A sucker is born everyday, I don’t get any satisfaction out of manipulating people I care about. If I wanted to use someone and discard them it wouldn’t be an ex that I built a real relationship with.
It’s not like exes being friends is some uncommon phenomenon and women initiate it all the time. You spend years with someone and now it’s just fukk it? I’ll never speak to you again because our romance didn’t pan out (for reasons y’all have NO clue about). I’m not out here stringing along guys I “dated” for three months. Yes y’all have emotions tied up together, that’s how relationships and friendships work. I am a multifaceted person with other motivations than to keep around someone to emotionally mooch off of and manipulate. I also have an emotional range and it’s not all jealousy and attention seeking. I usually don’t date lames so they have other women they talk to, I’m not an idiot. Maybe I have some value, but if we’re not fukking anymore I’m useless. I know that’s how some of you feel though
Not every woman is a delusional sociopath like y’all want to make out who’s out to steal your soul while she harvests them waiting for Godrick good dikk the 6 foot Tupac in a business suit.
What can I say I’m a dope person, sims guys want to talk to me and fukk. How terrible
Your experiences may vary, and who would have thought? Us not being the same and all...
But It's not really a gender thing IMO. Some people just like using people. For what it's worth I don't think you are silly or being manipulative. Also keep in mind that a lot of people believe men and women cant be friends so that's where some of the more dissenting views are coming from.
I absolutely believe men and women can be true friends but I'm sensitive to people trying to use me so I never wanted to be friends with my exes.
@tater I feel you fam. Every rule has an exception. Maybe you're a great friend to your exes; maybe you look out for them when they need help with something job related or stepping up to someone for them, maybe you always bring the booze/weed/edibles when they ask you to come thru, maybe you throw a $50 when one of them has their pockets hurting without prompt, maybe you've winged-womaned for those that still had lingering feelings for you, maybe you even have hooked up some of them with the baddest of your homegirls (while convincing said girls that they're not out of your ex's league, and that they'd make a perfect couple without really believing so). In short, maybe you're like one of the homies for your ex's. And if so, lucky for them.
But here in this thread OP has given us two pieces of vital information:
1- She broke up with him.
2- He still wants to be with her.
Add these two and you conclude that "she wants to be friends knowing he still wants to get back together with her". Unless she's like maybe you are <capable of being a true friend and helping him get over her> then you must know where we're coming from.
But here in this thread OP has given us two pieces of vital information:
1- She broke up with him.
2- He still wants to be with her.
Add these two and you conclude that "she wants to be friends knowing he still wants to get back together with her". Unless she's like maybe you are <capable of being a true friend and helping him get over her> then you must know where we're coming from.
This. That was all I was trying to convey.
I agree 100%. I said in like my first or second post in OP’s case it doesn’t seem like the best idea and he should move on, but you know how that goes...
G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman
Logic Is Absent Wherever Hate Is Present
You can't be a true platonic friend to someone you're attracted to.
Ok... i got a chance to read ur response...Damn you said my name twice and couldn’t find the @ sign.
Once again y’all ask opinions and tell us what our opinion is. Why ask a woman’s opinion when so many of your male counterparts already now what we think? I don’t know my own nature,
Y’all wonder why no women post here...it’s okay when the woman’s opinion lines up with yours a la @Booksnrain. No offense, but I guarantee her and I have completely different dating experiences. I’m in no way shape or form lacking male attention or someone I can emotionally leech off. A sucker is born everyday, I don’t get any satisfaction out of manipulating people I care about. If I wanted to use someone and discard them it wouldn’t be an ex that I built a real relationship with.
It’s not like exes being friends is some uncommon phenomenon and women initiate it all the time. You spend years with someone and now it’s just fukk it? I’ll never speak to you again because our romance didn’t pan out (for reasons y’all have NO clue about). I’m not out here stringing along guys I “dated” for three months. Yes y’all have emotions tied up together, that’s how relationships and friendships work. I am a multifaceted person with other motivations than to keep around someone to emotionally mooch off of and manipulate. I also have an emotional range and it’s not all jealousy and attention seeking. I usually don’t date lames so they have other women they talk to, I’m not an idiot. Maybe I have some value, but if we’re not fukking anymore I’m useless. I know that’s how some of you feel though
Not every woman is a delusional sociopath like y’all want to make out who’s out to steal your soul while she harvests them waiting for Godrick good dikk the 6 foot Tupac in a business suit.
What can I say I’m a dope person, sims guys want to talk to me and fukk. How terrible
Your experiences may vary, and who would have thought? Us not being the same and all...
And again, this is why i told OP not to listen... And i hate being like this because im tired of feeling like im attacking women... ive told myself to build a bridge because the world wants us to be divided on every aspect and to hate each other.
Buttttttt... everything you said is exactly what i thought a woman would say... if OP's Ex was a poster on here, thats exactly what she would be saying...
If you and a dude break up, fukking 9x outta 10 the shyt aint some mutual feeling break up. Somebody is breaking up with somebody. And shyt aint gonna be sweet either, there were probly things being said and done, that these 2 ppl cant all of a sudden be cool again... So if 1 person wants to be cool again, theres a fukking agenda... Now the person, male or female (especially female) probly wont even see their own agenda... its some deep psychological shyt... consciously they think, "oh we were cool... so we should still be cool..."
But sub consciously theres other shyt in there...Something they cant even know unless they sit an analyze their actions, which nobody does...
everything we do has a subconscious element to it...
Fellas you ever had a female hit u up out of the blue and say some shyt like "i was just seeing how u are"...?
Aint no such thing... everything is done for a reason.
And if ur saying ur reason is to be friends then u should ask urself why the fukk do i wanna be his friend for?... we werent friends we werent together... we were a couple... the only reason we interacted is because i was attracted to him and him to me... we were not friends,..
Friends are platonic.
Women even thinking men want to be friends with them at all is fukking ridiculous and the reason you cant take anything they say as accurate information.
They cant see the truth on the outside or the inside... If u were a man, you would see this... (no disrespect)
Women are not all the same, but there are just fundamental things that motivate male and female actions... Attention is the main thing for women...sex is the main thing for men.
I know uve been in ur body for 28yrs... but its hard for most ppl to truely know themselves both men and women...
But especially women because u guys have alot my insecurities and are more vulnerable emotionally, which keeps yall from being brutally honest with yourselves... which happens to be the only way you can truely began to know urselves.
I dont know u, so u can be diff then every other female... but im just talking in general