I think this is bullshyt
And if it's true it's even worse...who the fukk is she to determine what the next man is spending on his SO??
Shes the best friend and ally to that woman. Why are yall acting like men dont warn their homies about the tactics of women when we see they getting played?
Shes actually giving her friend solid advice here. Only place she went wrong was saying the friend needed to break up. Some men just simply dont know how to romance a woman and arent very imaginative. We dont know if the friend is bothered by the lack of effort or not. Her friend may know she is deep down,or she may be projecting.
Bottom line is she is correct about him not putting in effort,and possibly not liking her like that. Definitely correct about the dating for 4 years thing. Its imperative you bring ultimatums to the table and move men along. Again,some men lack awareness and dont feel they are wasting your time. After 4 years you should be married/deeply and righteously attached or get off the pot.
If this lady has a screw lose,thats up to her friend and also her man to determine. Sounds like he may have made the call.
S-atisfy
I-solate
S-ubjegate
Hes on the right track to a happy home
