When should I move on from this woman and give up?

[Commish]

That attention is more than any other woman has given me. Yes i have already been rejected numerous times.

My only thing is that whatever attention she gave doesn't mean much because she isn't consistent with it. She gave you your moment of truth, so run with that and move on. There is someone out there who will give you more. You just have to put yourself out there to find out...

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You haven't lived until you've sat on the other end of the phone listening to a man complain about women for 30 minutes. I told breh he was cool but had too much baggage. He went ham and hung up on me. Called me back 5 minutes later talking about 'Let's start over.' #hardpass

 

[Pimp]

 

[George's Dilemma]

You haven't lived until you've sat on the other end of the phone listening to a man complain about women for 30 minutes. I told breh he was cool but had too much baggage. He went ham and hung up on me. Called me back 5 minutes later talking about 'Let's start over.' #hardpass

 

[Mike809]

the moment you made this thread.

 

[Brolic Scholar]

You masturbate too much and have no social skills OP. Go meet a woman you don’t like THAT much and get a nut on the regular and practice how to talk to women. You’ve put too much stock into a human that farts, shyts and bleeds like you.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

She doesn't care about you, move on. Women that can't spare a few minutes to respond after being contacted don't respect you.

 

[Taadow]

Back in late September of 2018 I wrote a letter to a woman I have had feelings for over a year. I have had feelings for this woman since December 2016.

Never ever do this again.
All that a gesture like that says to a woman is "You have control of me now",
and that will never work out good for you.

After I gave her the letter and left someone told me it overwhelmed her and she cried and was very touched by it. In the letter I told her I would not contact her and she could reach out and that I would move on if she doesn't like me.

But then in October 2018 because of Hurricane Michael causing damage to where I live I was worried and I ended up texting her asking how she and her family was and that I was worried about her. She never responded to my text. To this day I have not heard from her at all. We both live in Americus, Georgia.

You shot yourself in the foot.
If you said you would not contact her in the letter...but then you contact her a month later, you in effect told her "I don't stand on my word" on top of "you have control of me now" - and those are both things a woman does not like in a potential partner. You sound needy.

I have never had a girlfriend before so it is hard fort me. She is the first woman to really show me any attention and we used to text each other all the time. Even when I was at work she would text me a lot. I have never had that with any woman before. I feel like there is this void in my life and I don't know if I will find someone like her again.

You don't know if you'll ever find another woman who texts again? Bruh, that's a good chunk of what all women do.

Don't expect women to fill the "voids" in your life; you have to do that yourself.

Go find you some things to do, some hobbies.