When should men be ready to commit?

[Draje]

Wondering because I got two good women who wanna settle down but I still haven't had that "itch" that I need to settle down and work on creating wealth plus a proper black family.

For guys who are in serious relationships and such, did you know you wanted to settle down or did it just kinda happen subtly?

When does new p*ssy lose that appeal

 

[12345A]

Who's to decide? Do you feel like it's time?

 

[Pepe La Hues]

dont do it

 

[wickedsm]

the fact that you have 2 good women who want to settle down and you dont feel the urge with either
means that its def not the time for you.

nothing wrong with that. When its time it will be time.
In my experience it seems later 20s and early 30s seem to be when men get that itch
but my experience isnt universal so its
whenever you feel ready

Good luck breh

 

[At30wecashout]

Breh I don't know what to tell you. The girl who was ready...who I most likely should have laid it ALL on the line for...I would have been 20 when we
were in each other's lives. I was not ready. Surprise surprise, no other woman has stepped into my life that was worthy of commitment since. This was back in 2009.

You can't rush it though, man, cause while you may think you are ready, you end up jumping in that pool with them and divorcing shortly thereafter. Being ready to commit is different

from finding the person you should commit to

 

[Draje]

It sucks because I like these chicks and I LIKE spending time with them.

They've shown the willingness to throw down they last dollar to me if I need it or to ride for me.

I'm hitting 26 in a few days and I still can't stop chasing girls

 

[PinotNoir]

When you feel like you've met that who makes you proud and vice verse. Basically when you feel like it..now obviously if you're not financially ready to settle down ie not needing to borrow $$$ then you should wait until your situation is better.

 

[Draje]

When you feel like you've met that who makes you proud and vice verse. Basically when you feel like it..now obviously if you're not financially ready to settle down ie not needing to borrow $$$ then you should wait until your situation is better.

Eh, I'm 25 and financially stable. Own spot, own car, and already building other assets through investing in such.

But interesting.

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

Never do it until you feel that you're ready. You'd be doing yourself and her a disservice.

As to new p*ssy losing it's appeal... it never will. You just have to know you've found the right woman that you know you won't pursue it. Attraction is normal

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

It sucks because I like these chicks and I LIKE spending time with them.

They've shown the willingness to throw down they last dollar to me if I need it or to ride for me.

I'm hitting 26 in a few days and I still can't stop chasing girls

Man I'm bout to be 25. I've been in relationships all my life. I'm bout to just get started

 

[lightbearerchef]

Im 22 dawg i was tryna settle down wit this one female
Only time will tell. I say atleast keep em in yo life until you ready, cuz you may not come across another female willing to settle down.
Shiiid if you aint ready dont waste they time. Ik somebody who 26/27 wita brandnew baby & he still out chasin females & wont own up 2 him being caught smh.

 

[mr.africa]

can't help you with this one,breh.
i'm in a 3 year relationship myself and i'm trying to figure out whether she's the one myself.

 

[miranda]

Don't do it, you are not ready.

And don't you already have a family, and a child with some mestizo lady?

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Whenever you're ready........... but don't put anything in writing #GMB

 

[Dixon Cider]

I settled. Yes I can be out and about and constantly am fending off bytches from making be stray. Have mixed feelings on relationships. You will be ready to jump off a bridge when you live with her.