When Someone Close To U Wifes Up A Thot Unappreciation

[KENNY DA COOKER]

Do like i do....

Just mind your business..

Laugh to yourself and be thankful it aint u

And hum the words to the lyrics of.Brand Nubian

..joe blow put a ring upon her finger..i tried to school em ..now he stuck with a humdinger....

 

[mag357]

What do yall do when one of ya boys or family members wifes up a girl with hoeish tendencies/fukked up past , a straight up thot or just a bad pick overall

My boy just started dating this girl & shes cute, shes submissive and shes chill

Only thing is she’s an ex stripper of 5 years...

Im like breh, not only are u a square that dont know how to handle those types but an ex stripper isnt exactly wife material.....

He said and I quote “she’s good to me & takes care of all my needs, plus thats in the past”. Then got a lil irritated at me like I was the bad guy.

I just went

Do u fam.

I fully expect for him to stop hitting me up & stay latched on to her until the shyt show begins.

Know another dude in the Army who was dating a girl who was deep into that IG model life (shes some fitness model white girl). Told him its a bad idea, he called me insecure, u must hate women blah blah. I said ok man. This bytch was fukking his platoon sergeant and 2 other guys behind his back he was devastated




At this point, I dont even comment and say “aslong as u happy” but I lowkey feel like im failing them by not atleast saying something. On the other hand if it actually works out (RARE but it happens) then I just look like a hater. But Im big on telling the truth to people u love or I feel like I failed u. They almost always get mad at you too. What do yall do in this dilemma brehs?

My homeboy told me something recently that really stuck wit me... he basically said that communication is overaated..Nobody aint really hearing shyt. they already have theyre opinion... and ur just probly making them mad or irritated. And i thought about all the times i tried to come to a muthafuka or some communication shyt lol... I realized he was right...
Now, i been in this situation before, even if u know its gonna turn out bad, u just feel like u have to say something... for ur own sake..
But now im like fukk that shyt... Be happy in ur stupid shyt homie..
I basically lost a whole brother to that "telling a nikka his girl is a skally" shyt...
Im done

 

[mag357]

If it isn't you then it really isn't your business.

If your friend wifes up a known thot, stripper, escort etc then it's really on him and NONE of your business.

Just be glad it isn't you and KIM.

If thats ur friend...which is family to me, cause i dnt have friends... then it is ur business...
but fukk it lol

 

[Phitz]

The harder you come at them sometimes drives them closer to the danger you're warning about. You gotta be relaxed and firm at the right times, honest but not too harsh...it's a balancing act. Dont cut them off but just be there for your friends/fam when they crash and burn and they will appreciate you for being honest.

 

[Cat piss martini]

get your popcorn and enjoy the show.
I love horror movies i never star in.

 

[mag357]

lol that classmate showed up like this ....

GMB angel

Problem is they never learn,get angry when you give them the truth yet they cant help theyselves telling you about their problems every chance they get...


That GMB angel should be Official just as is official

This has to become a THING.., if it isnt 1 yet...
GMB ANGEL lol

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

lol that classmate showed up like this ....

GMB angel

Brehs need to make a show outta this..

 

[UpAndComing]

One of my friends got a girl from Backpage pregnant

 

[chief_keef_stan]

I was watching this Bow wow interview with Jason lee. don't get me wrong. bow wow is the last person to be giving advice but this one he has a point. He said date and marry what you like. If you like strippers, then be with one. If that man wants to be with a former stripper, let him be. He's probably the happiest he's ever been. Too many of ya'll concerned with marrying the PERFECT CHICK. guess what, EVERYONE HAS FLAWS. Stop worrying about finding this good girl you can brag about (NO kids, masters degree, 0 to low body count) and just go after what YOU like.

bow wow?


mann if this nikka dont get

i swear his ex erica mena was beating up this nikka fuked up his brain

 

[DLo]

Strippers are a whole different animal

Had a friend that got trapped by a stripper. He owned his own business and she saw a sucker. She got knocked up and he married her. We all tried to warn him that she was bad news. Fast forward 6 years and he found out she had some nikka on the side and was stealing money from their bank accounts.

He is divorced but his business went under because he couldn't focus anymore.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Most times people already know when they fukkin up. As a female who gets cursed out on the daily from female friends for giving unsolicited advice out of love...

"Soooooo the fukk hoe's for life tatt on his face makes u think his dikk will taste like responsibility?"

Don't say anything. Just watch, be there for them, and point out patterns if/when it goes south. U gotta let people take their own spirit journeys.

 

[Brolic Scholar]

I have a close potna... he's like a brother to me. Been that way since we were kids. My nikka wifed up a ho he got pregnant when we were in our early 20s and his life has been hell ever since. He even divorced her once and went back because he couldn't tough out the rough patch of starting over. He told me he regrets that seeing how I came out the other side of the rough patch of my divorce.

I tried to warn this nikka and give him advice but he was on that praise the Lord and forgiveness bs after he reformed from the street life. His cousin got popped in the head and he went the square route. Not mad at that, but it's like he lost all street smarts after that.

Things this bytch did:

-got a train ran on her by his homies before she got pregnant
-cheated with multiple nikkas
-got pregnant and abortions for multiple nikkas
-had a baby for another nikka
-cursed members of his family out
-disrespectful to his family
-sold drugs for nikkas
-bought phones with his money for nikkas
-moved a nikka in his house when he was working out of town
-etc.

That bytch knows I don't fukk with her. I bite my tongue but fukk her.

Long story short. nikkas don't listen.

 

[DontDoIt]

It is my business if hes in my circle

Dam do yall not like ur friends or something

You are a good friend.

I would want to know.

 

[King Poetic]

I don't like putting people on blast on the net cause they probably lurking

But fukk it.. If u lurking and from the Los Angeles area i might be exposing u


1.. So about a year ago i was in home depot picking up paint so im in line checking out and this dude i knew years ago came up and said king u remember me it's TUPAC(code name to protect the lurker)...so we talking and he said he got married and got a kid, so we walking out and he introduced me to his wife.....i knew her but she didn't recognize me because it been like 10 or more years...this dude married a broad who got fukked by 2 dudes at a club where people was cheering her own..ratchet club...and a chick who my cousin and his 5 buddies fukk her in like a 6 month span..

I just said congrats to the 2 and kept it movin...he ask we should talk sometime..i said naw, im leaving cali soon and never coming back

I knew after awhile if we talk i might end up ruining homie marriage... I said I'll let folks enjoy themselves

 

[Megadeus]

I learned a while ago that its best to stay out of people's relationship. There are 2 things that has been proven to consistently ruin friendships: money and women. They gonna learn the hard way

If it isn't you then it really isn't your business.

If your friend wifes up a known thot, stripper, escort etc then it's really on him and NONE of your business.

Just be glad it isn't you and KIM.

Do like i do....

Just mind your business..

Laugh to yourself and be thankful it aint u

And hum the words to the lyrics of.Brand Nubian

..joe blow put a ring upon her finger..i tried to school em ..now he stuck with a humdinger....

This, this and this. Mind ya damn business, its not your relationship. Dudes stay thinking they could "warn" the homie.. Its his girl not yours. This captain save-a-bro mentality never works in these cases. If dude already fell for her, its already over. You're not gonna talk him out of anything.

If she has hoe tendencies, or is a reformed hoe, HE KNOWS THIS and HE KNOWS THE RISKS unless he's a complete and total moron. Its 2018 its not that hard to check out a girl's track record. He doesn't care because he either believes or wants to believe that she's changed for him. Leave it at that.

Reminding him of her past is only going to piss him off, or make you look like an envious hater who doesnt want to see them succeed, especially if youre single.. The ONLY thing you could do for him is drop the dime if you catch her cheating on him. He'll deal with it however he sees fit.