When talking to a girl, how soon do you ask if she has a BF?

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OK...so thats a relationship.

But you gotta stop trying to front like you NEED someone.

Relationships are about mutual connections and what the other person grants the other person.

:whoa: im still tryna do my thing tho as well. thats why im trying to figure out how to find a "good girl" and still fukk sluts.
 

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:whoa: im still tryna do my thing tho as well. thats why im trying to figure out how to find a "good girl" and still fukk sluts.

1. You haven't had sex yet and you're trying to be greed. stop that.

2. you're sounding ridiculous as hell. you can't have everything at once and you haven't mastered the art of even having ONE woman.
 

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I used to ask when I was young and had no game :manny:...but now I approach every girl as if she's single.

imagine she just wants d!ck and nothing more

...and you comin with that "do you have a bf :hamster:" sh!t...you might of just talked your way out of them sugar walls
 

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my only problem is catching feelings for a dishonest harlot who manipulated you into think that you and her could have something special. yall don't know that feel where you find out and you realize it'll NEVER work because even when she's single you'll always remember how she behaves while she's in a "relationship"
 

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It's two things i ask about ASAP.....if they have a man and how many kids they got.

I've never been one to play games with women off top like all that cuz women will be on some straight up bullshyt and i hate not knowing what i should know. Knowing is the first step in being prepared for whatever...

I agree if you just trying to smash it probably doesn't matter but OP seems like he wants a girl for a relationship so by all means ask them upfront and filter out from there.
 

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The first sentence

th!s... :ehh: fukk what yall say!n, f!rst th!ngs ! ask a ch!ck !s her age & her relat!onsh!p status..... smash & call !t a n!ght, you got a man to go home to, dont need my number, !m !nvest!n 0 extra t!me on that cheat!n slore.... fukk that chess play!n, batman prep t!me sh!t.... OP ask stra!ght off & know how to proceed immed!ately......
 

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This is terrible advice. A man should NEVER be the one bringing up a potential relationship, asking a chick if she has a boyfriend could lead her to thinking you want to be her man. All a woman you're pursuing should ever know is that you are sexually attracted to her, don't even imply you want a relationship till she explicitly says SHE does.

Straight game for you know-notters.

Step to ol' gurl with your bid. She can accept your bid or not for whatever reason,
you don't have to look for a reason to give her an out.


Askin' a broad if she has a man is like goin' on a job interview and saying:
"Yeah, i'm qualified and I want the job, but if you wanna give it to one of these other applicants I understand..."
 

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idk how to explain, but i think you can get a lot things out of a woman other than sex.
True. But these things usually come after you've had sex with them.

Also, never catch feelings for a girl until you've smashed at least 3 times. If you haven't smashed yet, she's just another woman you're attracted to. Catching feelings early will fukk up your approach.

Control your emotions nikka.
 

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Nope, I never ask.

At the end of the day, I'm going to assume that if she's an attractive woman that someone is hanging around her like a bee hangs around pollen. Hell, even if she's not that attractive, she still has a vagina, so some dude is going to be hanging around her. They could be having sex, they could not be...doesn't matter...he's still waiting for his shot.

Since, I'm not competing with that dude, I'm just going to worry about my interaction with the woman and let her choose correctly. Letting a woman choose will alleviate any issue that would come with the "man" thing anyway.

If she has a man that she TRULY cares about, then she won't choose up.

If she doesn't have a man, or the guy she's dating is nothing more than a stop-gap, then she will choose up.

Peace
 

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*** snorts 48seconds***

When talking to a harlot, a male is the last thing is on my mind, if she is talking to me and she has a main dude, thats their issue. I could careless.
 

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I never ask at all actually. If she brings up that she has a guy it's obvious to me she has no interest.
 

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why do men do this:mindblown:..... Ask a woman as soon as you meet her if she has a bf, so you dont waste time. I know its forward but would you rather cut to the chase or waste money on the chic just for her to say "I thought you wanted to be just friends". Within the first seconds I meet a man I'm interested in I ask them are they married, single, engaged or fukking someone :demonic: @Brooklynzson
 

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why do men do this:mindblown:..... Ask a woman as soon as you meet her if she has a bf, so you dont waste time. I know its forward but would you rather cut to the chase or waste money on the chic just for her to say "I thought you wanted to be just friends". Within the first seconds I meet a man I'm interested in I ask them are they married, single, engaged or fukking someone :demonic: @Brooklynzson
***snorts 38seconds**

They do it because they either insecure or emotional, and ready to cuff on sight.
 
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