When talking to a girl, how soon do you ask if she has a BF?

[PabloEscobar]

I done wasted a lot of time, effort, and emotion in my past dealing with girls with boy friends. That shyt don't ever come up til after you've been talking for like 2-3 weeks...sometimes months. the thing is i don't like being to foward when im dealing with new females. i just like to play that "getting to know you" role. is it better to be upfront and ask her relationship status or is that too obvious?

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I don't ever ask. If she brings it up she's PROBABLY not attracted. There's a slight chance she is but chicks usually don't tell guys that they want to fukk about their bfs

 

[radio rahiem]

1 week tops
matter of fact, they'll bring it up most times

 

[Kilgore Trout]

never ask just assume she doesn't have one. Its up to her to say it.

 

[Jparker]

That's my opener

 

[Action Jackson]

 

[PabloEscobar]

I don't ever ask. If she brings it up she's PROBABLY not attracted. There's a slight chance she is but chicks usually don't tell guys that they want to fukk about their bfs

1 week tops
matter of fact, they'll bring it up most times

in my most recent experience... it didn't come til are second time hanging out. at which point i had been talking to her for like a month. the bytch had the nerve to lie and say she told me b4. its the new "nerdy bytch" im kinda interested in she kind of quirky and weird im prob going to drive on her but take it slow i dont wanna waste my time. because if i go too slow ill end up wasting my time, but at the same time i dont wanna rush it.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

ASAP. I would reccomend within the first 3 days. If you're interested in more than friendship, its in your interest to let her know as soon as you can.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

ASAP. I would reccomend within the first 3 days. If you're interested in more than friendship, its in your interest to let her know as soon as you can.

This is terrible advice. A man should NEVER be the one bringing up a potential relationship, asking a chick if she has a boyfriend could lead her to thinking you want to be her man. All a woman you're pursuing should ever know is that you are sexually attracted to her, don't even imply you want a relationship till she explicitly says SHE does.

 

[PabloEscobar]

never ask just assume she doesn't have one. Its up to her to say it.

picture you chillin with a bytch and she just all of sudden says some shyt like "you remember what i told you right?" "i have a boyfriend" that shyt happened to me before. if i wouldve known i wouldve left that shyt alone. a girl being in a relationship is a huge turnoff for me.

 

[PabloEscobar]

ASAP. I would reccomend within the first 3 days. If you're interested in more than friendship, its in your interest to let her know as soon as you can.

true. but i just wanna play that we just kickin it role. like nothing serious and see if we are compatible before i show "intimate entrance" if that makes sense, because she's a nice girl and i dont want to make shyt awkward since we live together.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

I don't ever ask. If she brings it up she's PROBABLY not attracted. There's a slight chance she is but chicks usually don't tell guys that they want to fukk about their bfs

Bingo.

If she really cared about that dude, she'd tell me.

...and if she's lying, then cut her ass off.

The point is not to be too invested in these chicks. If she lies about that, then what can you really trust her about?

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

ASAP. I would reccomend within the first 3 days. If you're interested in more than friendship, its in your interest to let her know as soon as you can.

I can express interest in her without knowing her status. You dig?

 

[360dagod]

Ask her if she got a bf....If you get the digi's

set up a date

then on the date,there will be an opening to explain your intentions....

Its like chess...

the beginning game,the middle game,and the end game

sometimes you lose a pawn to set up capturing a rook...

 

[Kilgore Trout]

picture you chillin with a bytch and she just all of sudden says some shyt like "you remember what i told you right?" "i have a boyfriend" that shyt happened to me before. if i wouldve known i wouldve left that shyt alone. a girl being in a relationship is a huge turnoff for me.

Not sure why shes chilling with you if she has a BF. Girls know you wanna get with her.....in fact most girls assume it, even ugly ones. If shes chilling with you and she has a bf that just means she's an attention whore or that she's looking for a new dude.

I never ask girls if she has a bf I don't even ask if she wants one. I usually just try to smash....and see if she has potential. If things are good maybe a month or two from now then ill enter the bf talks.