When they finally tell the truth

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

She was going to do this regardless but this is a tongue/cheek way of using postpartum as a way for a fresh start
It’s people out here having children for selfish reasons
Or bullshyt they heard from they triflin “ you don’t need a man girl” mommas
But I guarantee when that new baby smell wears off
And youngin starts coming into them developmental ages
This bih whole tune will switch up
Now it will be a story about her BM being controlling and how she can’t find the right man to match her energy
But you captain savems will say otherwise

 

[Wiseborn]

Peoples happiness are more important than their kids. I struggled to be top tier happy when I first became a family man. Felt like I was missing out on the action and of course the ho's. So basically I missed foolishness. This is the number one cause of single motherhood. And that comes from both sides,adultry is at all time highs. But a wise person would stay for the sake of their kids. Whether you actually like the person or not. Will and Jada are the blueprint for the average american household

Bingo. being a parent involves sacrifice If you don't realize that you're lost.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

So the default is Man bad woman good.

Maybe both of them just got horny and the nikka tried to do the right thing.

i mean what if when she was pregnant the nikka said I just wanted a nut if you want a father for your b*stard you should've vetted better.

Terrible terrible excuse. Learn to control those urges or get burned just like the millions of other men. Don't come crying to me when your pockets being raped

 

[desjardins]

If you're not happy .....leave
That goes for man or woman. She got leverage now through child support but that's the risk nikkas take

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Man I usually try to leave names out my stories, but in this case, I'm dropping it. I knew this bytch named Jackie. Jackie got pregnant with twins. Her man was a UPS driver...He wasn't balling, but making decent money/benefits, stable. The babies are born, she tells me, that she told her man that she didn't want to be with him anymore and wanted to raise the twins separately. He keep one, she keep one, and raise them independently. He thought this was the dumbest thing he'd ever heard, I asked her why she wanted to leave, and why she would ever consider something so ridiculous? She said it wasn't anything in particular, just felt the relationship wasn't going anywhere. Long story short he kept denying her request, so she did what the girl in OP did. She just bounced with her twin. He hired a PI to look for her, and the PI questioned me, and other people inquiring about where she was. I had no idea, but she ended up in North Carolina. PI found her. Through another mutual friend I found out dad found her, petitioned the court, filed for full custody of both children and won.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Lol. Same shyt happened to me after I had my son. I didn’t want to be with his dad anymore. Kicked him to the curb when my son was 8 months, but honestly I knew I was ready to be done when my son was 5 months. I fell out of love. Seven year relationship gone just like that and never looked back. I was young as hell though—I didn’t have the maturity or selflessness to try to make shyt work and fight through those waning feelings.

 

[Wiseborn]

Terrible terrible excuse. Learn to control those urges or get burned just like the millions of other men. Don't come crying to me when your pockets being raped

Well fukk it the nikka choose wrong and when the daughter is having her fourth kid by a nikka who's jailed and selling ass because she seen her mom's bush her pops I guess we could blame that on the jailed baby daddy not vetting the bytch too.

 

[Still Benefited]

Bingo. being a parent involves sacrifice If you don't realize that you're lost.

People arent raised like that anymore. Culturally its become a norm to think that a father is expendable. Because you always have the European/white supremacy waiting in the wings to help. And for men,we have been programmed to think that single motherhood is the norm and okay,especially as black men. Weve been trained to think that as long as you still are in your childs life and coparent is acceptable. Go find happiness black man,just make sure you visit regularly and pay your child support. You are still a "great father" if you do those things. No,if you dont live with the mother of your child,you cant be a great father. What would that make those of us who do live with our childrens mothers,and raise our child in unison?



That needs to be said,too many men out here think they are good fathers. When the first step in even being a good father is keeping your family together.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Lol. Same shyt happened to me after I had my son. I didn’t want to be with his dad anymore. Kicked him to the curb when my son was 8 months, but honestly I knew I was ready to be done when my son was 5 months. I fell out of love. Seven year relationship gone just like that and never looked back. I was young as hell though—I didn’t have the maturity or selflessness to try to make shyt work and fight through those waning feelings.

where's he at now?

 

[skyrunner1]

That's not the point. The point is if he vet her before getting her pregnant than a bad outcome is less likely.

You can vet ALL you want, sometimes when them hormones change, the person you vetted completely changes. There is NOTHING you can do about it. This happens more than most obviously are aware of when taking comments into account. Women will eject for whatever reason, you can plan all day but when its over, ITS DONE. You cant plan for complete abandonment of relationship

 

[Wiseborn]

Lol. Same shyt happened to me after I had my son. I didn’t want to be with his dad anymore. Kicked him to the curb when my son was 8 months, but honestly I knew I was ready to be done when my son was 5 months. I fell out of love. Seven year relationship gone just like that and never looked back. I was young as hell though—I didn’t have the maturity or selflessness to try to make shyt work and fight through those waning feelings.

I'm not gonna criticize you and you did say that you still have the kid's father in his life. That being said was there no thought about the father being present?

Does he get proper visitation rights? Would you be willing to pay the transport fees to send your child to see him?

Again I'm not criticizing you personally life happens but a Son needs a father figure more than even a daughter.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

You can vet ALL you want, sometimes when them hormones change, the person you vetted completely changes. There is NOTHING you can do about it. This happens more than most obviously are aware of when taking comments into account. Women will eject for whatever reason, you can plan all day but when its over, ITS DONE. You cant plan for complete abandonment of relationship

What you're failing to admit is that marriage is far more successful than getting a random woman pregnant.

Of course vetting isn't perfect, did I say it was perfect? No. Then why are you quoting me?

 

[Wiseborn]

People arent raised like that anymore. Culturally its become a norm to think that a father is expendable. Because you always have the European/white supremacy waiting in the wings to help. And for men,we have been programmed to think that single motherhood is the norm and okay,especially as black men. Weve been trained to think that as long as you still are in your childs life and coparent is acceptable. Go find happiness black man,just make sure you visit regularly and pay your child support. You are still a "great father" if you do those things. No,if you dont live with the mother of your child,you cant be a great father. What would that make those of us who do live with our childrens mothers,and raise our child in unison?



That needs to be said,too many men out here think they are good fathers. When the first step in even being a good father is keeping your family together.

The vast majority of female sex workers in the world are mothers of young boys. That's the case in the 3rd world and it's the case in the western world.

 

[Wiseborn]

What you're failing to admit is that marriage is far more successful than getting a random woman pregnant.

Of course vetting isn't perfect, did I say it was perfect? No. Then why are you quoting me?

Damn just damn I nikka could marry a woman and is that case 70% of the time the woman bushes the Man and it's still completely on the Man.

I'd agree with you if the Man had a greater say so in the relationship.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Damn just damn I nikka could marry a woman and is that case 70% of the time the woman bushes the Man and it's still completely on the Man.

I'd agree with you if the Man had a greater say so in the relationship.

Where's your sources? You post yours, I'll post mine.