When was the last time you cried?

[humminbird]

didn't cry but felt destroyed
personal family thing that happened
I cried in my sleep a year ago though but for no reason

 

[Hey_zeus]

When I heard that 3k verse on Life of the party

 

[CrushedGroove]

About 5 minutes ago.

When I clicked on this post. The avatar, caption, and thread premise did not have me well.

Just spent a week in jail.

 

[Knuckles Red]

Sometimes I'll just have an overwhelming urge to cry, and then I will. Afterwards, I'll feel this calming numb feeling. Kind of like that calm before the storm where everything gets kind of quiet and still. I wouldn't say its a good feeling, or a bad one. Its just a noticeable feeling that I get after I cry. I don't cry often. Also, I can't think of a time when I was so overwhelmed by emotion that I cried uncontrollably. I hope I never do.

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

shyt last time I cried was when the Green Goblin died in the very first Spiderman.

nikka got stuck to the wall like a 1920s Christmas stocking.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

The bolded is absolute facts. I wish I'd known this years ago when I was going through shyt.

growing up seeing my sisters’ feelings and troubles being treated with care, I assumed I could do the same. Boy was I wrong I’ve heard & done everything in the book from women I’ve dealt with and family:

• Expressed my genuine thoughts after a break-up
• “It’s not that serious”
• “You’re being ungrateful”
• “I didn’t think you’d reaction this way”
• “This isn’t you”
• Had my issues being flipped against me

A man’s greatest ability to me is to be silent and walk away. Let me write out these thoughts on a piece of paper, rip it to shred in the trash, and move on with my day.

 

[MIKE SPLEAN]

I cried two months ago because I was thinking about the time that my father abused me and left my family. It hurts not having a father figure.

Damn I’m sorry

 

[humminbird]

Sometimes I'll just have an overwhelming urge to cry, and then I will. Afterwards, I'll feel this calming numb feeling. Kind of like that calm before the storm where everything gets kind of quiet and still. I wouldn't say its a good feeling, or a bad one. Its just a noticeable feeling that I get after I cry. I don't cry often. Also, I can't think of a time when I was so overwhelmed by emotion that I cried uncontrollably. I hope I never do.

are you in a mental health profession by chance? or do you mediate a lot?
this is a very introspective mental technique you're using

 

[Knuckles Red]

are you in a mental health profession by chance? or do you mediate a lot?
this is a very introspective mental technique you're using

I'm not. I just go with what my body wants to do, and then reflect on how I feel after I'm done crying.

 

[Mike809]

i didnt cry but i tear when i saw the movie 17 blocks like a week ago.

 

[Charlie Hustle]

When I’m with my other side chick, I cry every time I buss. I’m talking weeping level crying

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

...and what was it about? How did it make you feel after you cried? Do you cry often, or do you allow the patriarchal ideals, of what a man should be, to prevent you from feeling natural human emotions?

When my dad died. i was boo hooing. And Before that. Stuart Scott. I know a lot of people was crying over Kobe death.But Stuart Scott death had me all fukked up.

 

[EffYou]

...and what was it about? How did it make you feel after you cried? Do you cry often, or do you allow the patriarchal ideals, of what a man should be, to prevent you from feeling natural human emotions?

Earlier today imagining if my pops passed after we got off the phone , we have bad communication and I know ima regret some things when he do. Naw ion cry like that

 

[Knuckles Red]

This is a good song to listen to when you want to feel your emotions:

 

[Coolin']

growing up seeing my sisters’ feelings and troubles being treated with care, I assumed I could do the same. Boy was I wrong I’ve heard & done everything in the book from women I’ve dealt with and family:

• Expressed my genuine thoughts after a break-up
• “It’s not that serious”
• “You’re being ungrateful”
• “I didn’t think you’d reaction this way”
• “This isn’t you”
• Had my issues being flipped against me

A man’s greatest ability to me is to be silent and walk away. Let me write out these thoughts on a piece of paper, rip it to shred in the trash, and move on with my day.

Breh, are you me? lol. I grew up around a bunch of women so I used to think this way of thinking was normal for men too. Nope.