When ya current s/o see's pics of ya ex (and you)

[Art Barr]

Why would she ask such a question.

Stop trying to play innocent, got damn it.
If, a girl finds out about an ex.
They say all that bullshyt in the bedroom, all the time.
Stop ack'n brand new and holier than thou.
You know damn well, what your female brehettes be doing.



Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

I dig it....but it's not like I'm gonna actually say "nope, her p*ssy was wet, yours is just damp "

Real talk though,....

I do compare every chick I fukk to this one ex.
If they are not on point like her.
I know I will not be interested long enough.
I do not bring her up at all, or any past ex's to my lovers.
Yet, I still be like I know why this chick is just my lover and not committal type.
She pales in comparison to this one ex.

Chicks I date are in an unknown competition to outdothis one last ex and my highschool sweetheart who got killed in a car crash.

If said chick is not better than those two,..
They can forget it.
Plus I know it will not last, so I do not even sweat when a redflag or some issue is raised that could lead to a breakup.
It is just like,...
They were not better than x and y,..so of course this leads to break up z.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

...that was probably my fault, because when we(me and my last ex) first were just messing around we talked about our best sex, besides with each other...and i mentioned a chik from cali..then she saw the chik leave a FB comment and snooped on fb for this chik. The girl i'm dealing with now is not friends with me on it. We never even bring it up neither.

Never talk about past sex life's with ex's.
It breeds contempt in your Esso and could actually breed contempt on your side.
Even, If you are not the jealous type.
Just discussing ex's, to a current mate is a bad deal.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

@ the ex...the fukk? 1st girl must have real bad daddy issues. assuming the blur and the iphone aren't obscuring something hideous, first chick is >>>>>>>>>than your ex

He should have never let a black womb know he used to kick it with a white woman.
That is just no-no number one.
I never committed to no white chick past a one night groupie stand.
Yet, If i did committ to a white woman i would not let her know or see any black former female lovers, either.
It could ruin the dynamic and rapport, you have.

Just showing or mentioning ex's to a current is a bad idea.

I am glad i never see ex's.



Art Barr

Art Barr

 

[YBE]

Nah dog. The fact that she askin if her puss is wetter than your ex's is a RED FLAG. Please believe she will have a jealous moment later on that leaves you bleeding or your property harmed.

 

[Metta World Movement]

Now this one asked me does she fukk better than my ex....and would I like for her to go blonde....

 

[Mike Ock]

Never talk about past sex life's with ex's.
It breeds contempt in your Esso and could actually breed contempt on your side.
Even, If you are not the jealous type.
Just discussing ex's, to a current mate is a bad deal.


Art Barr

I hear you, but that was just at the beginning stages when we thought we'd just mess around and never see each other again being that she didn't live in NY...then we started going back and forth to see each other...then we became official and she moved in with me...I had no idea she'd have the Cali girl still on her mind, but she did.

 

[Mike Ock]

Real talk though,....

I do compare every chick I fukk to this one ex.
If they are not on point like her.
I know I will not be interested long enough.
I do not bring her up at all, or any past ex's to my lovers.
Yet, I still be like I know why this chick is just my lover and not committal type.
She pales in comparison to this one ex.

Art Barr

I try not too, but I think its just natural at times.... this explains whats going thru ya mind at the moment.

He should have never let a black womb know he used to kick it with a white woman.

Art Barr

Art Barr

She's not a sista though.... ...i def know telling a black chik that is a no-no lol

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Cali

Ex

I know one of those girls

but yeah like everyone else said.......the first chick >*

 

[Mike Ock]

I know one of those girls

but yeah like everyone else said.......the first chick >*

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

That's a little crazy. You need watch her. She may try some sneaky shyt like texting your ex from your phone and pretending to be you. The paranoia has begun.

 

[malbaker86]

wait

I need the link to the other thread to piece this together @Mike Ock.

So you're current girl ask about the ex who use to ask about the Cali chick?

 

[malbaker86]

I know one of those girls

 

[Mike Ock]

wait

I need the link to the other thread to piece this together @Mike Ock.

So you're current girl ask about the ex who use to ask about the Cali chick?

Bingo!....i'll make sure current one won't see cali.

 

[Art Barr]

I hear you, but that was just at the beginning stages when we thought we'd just mess around and never see each other again being that she didn't live in NY...then we started going back and forth to see each other...then we became official and she moved in with me...I had no idea she'd have the Cali girl still on her mind, but she did.

Oh okay,..i see.

Well considering you two were just not going to be committals and it turned out that way. It seems you two, put each other in long distance bin.
So, you communicated more than a couple who was within distance of one another.
Actually, now I know that Info.
Imo, nothing is wrong with your girl.
She just has gotten to know you and now is just trying to please you.
Given the distance that was made up.
Actually knowing that kinda is honorable and noble, on her part.
It really is no harm no foul.
She actually was real enough to disclose her vulnerability and that is what liking and loving someone really is.
You two are fine.
Just enjoy your relationship, doc ock!!


Art Barr