When y’all say "She looks like she dates white men" what specific traits or examples make you think that?

[The Pledge]

Her Mac and cheese is probably trash

That’s a dead giveaway

 

[BunchePark]

Yall know damn well what a black cracker act like

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Code switching will be "off."

When a sista only messes with brehs, it's effortless and natural. She'll do it at the drop of a hat like a Latino that graduated from Harvard but grew up speaking only Spanish in East LA.

If she only messes with white men, she won't code switch in obvious situations and it'll sound weird when she does. She's accustomed to communicating with white men and doesn't let her Blaccent out.

Usually has lots of stories about brehs being racist towards her and her white man.

Natural hair OR bad weave. No in-between. Natural hair is good though, so not really a negative in my book.

Either dark skinned or light/biracial. Brehs scoop up the non-mixed caramel and brown skinned broads for some reason.

 

[Soldier]

The friend group always gives it away.

If shes the only black person in all or most of her photos that tells me shes used to white people and feels more comfortable around them than black people.

So naturally I am never surprised when I see that kind of woman with a white man.

Rest of the answers here are just speculation from people who are out of touch with what young people are doing. They still think liking anime is for nerds and white people even tho one of the most popular female entertainers in america is an anime stan and dates black and mixed men exclusively.

And musical tastes aren’t an accurate sign of dating preference anyway . Maybe in the past when musical scenes were more tribal and music was much more tied to linguistical/social/cultural/ethnic/personal identity, but not now anymore. In this modern era of casual music playlists, everyone listens to everything. Every genre of Music is accessible to everyone regardless of one’s location. You can find country music listeners in Brazil or South Africa, hip hop fans in Germany and Afro beat fans in Japan.

And There are a lot of non-Black women who enjoy listening to Black artists yet they only or mostly date their own kind. So a Black woman enjoying some songs from white artists like Morgan Wallen or Taylor swift doesn’t mean she’s and only dates cacs.

Her Friend group
Her family background/her past/childhood/teenage/college years
Her Behavior in social situations in her interactions with black folks
Her Language/vocabulary/slang/accent
Her ability to do cultural/ social code switching depending of the context/situation

Her personal Celebrity crushes. ( movie stars, music stars, star professional sports athletes , reality tv cast characters, social media influencers)

 

[Ohene]

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[Ohene]

As a white man who’s married to a black woman and dated them and Latinos since college, is there a certain type of white man that qualifies? All the women I’ve dated had natural hair, definitely professionally driven independently, but had self pride for sure.

They for sure didn’t “exclusively date” white men either. That would weird me out to hear a woman say “I only like white men.”

its funny

everyone in here saying bad wigs/weave but more often than not when i see a white dude with a black woman, the woman's hair usually is natural or in dreads. if anything the women with bad weave/wigs usually are dating africans/black dudes

Code switching will be "off."

When a sista only messes with brehs, it's effortless and natural. She'll do it at the drop of a hat like a Latino that graduated from Harvard but grew up speaking only Spanish in East LA.

If she only messes with white men, she won't code switch in obvious situations and it'll sound weird when she does. She's accustomed to communicating with white men and doesn't let her Blaccent out.

Usually has lots of stories about brehs being racist towards her and her white man.

Natural hair OR bad weave. No in-between. Natural hair is good though, so not really a negative in my book.

Either dark skinned or light/biracial. Brehs scoop up the non-mixed caramel and brown skinned broads for some reason.

this breh know what he talking about lol

 

[DrBanneker]

As a white man who’s married to a black woman and dated them and Latinos since college, is there a certain type of white man that qualifies? All the women I’ve dated had natural hair, definitely professionally driven independently, but had self pride for sure.

They for sure didn’t “exclusively date” white men either. That would weird me out to hear a woman say “I only like white men.”

Honestly, I have seen a wide variation in the White men I know married to and dating Black women. In general, if the Black woman has self pride the White man has to be acceptably liberal (you don't seem MAGA) but apart from that even relative education varies. I know couples where both are high power professionals and couples where the Black woman is the breadwinner by a mile.

For me the big clue for IR couples is if both of them, and their kids, are comfortable with Black people and spaces individually or collectively. I personally would never deal with a White woman that is uncomfortable with other Black folks, especially women, but not everyone has that standard.

P.s. I see you are in Philly as am I

 

[Bigblackted4]

Definitely a bad wig or weave on a decently dressed woman. Certain tattoos and 100 percent most septum rings at least gives off open to most races.

 

[Road20]

If she has a Pam Oliver wig lol