When y’all say "She looks like she dates white men" what specific traits or examples make you think that?

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Black girls that act like white sorority girls

 

[Sire366]

Honestly, I have seen a wide variation in the White men I know married to and dating Black women. In general, if the Black woman has self pride the White man has to be acceptably liberal (you don't seem MAGA) but apart from that even relative education varies. I know couples where both are high power professionals and couples where the Black woman is the breadwinner by a mile.

For me the big clue for IR couples is if both of them, and their kids, are comfortable with Black people and spaces individually or collectively. I personally would never deal with a White woman that is uncomfortable with other Black folks, especially women, but not everyone has that standard.

P.s. I see you are in Philly as am I

Yes, very liberal, probably more than she and her family lol. Yeah I grew up in Allentown and went to Temple U. Despite being comfortable around people of all kind (and I have been since a kid), I’m always me too and who I am. I don’t present (I’m 38 now), nor ever try to be other than how I grew up.

It’s always weird to me, to be and grow up white though, some white people cannot be thoughtful and empathetic, to have a desire to build our neighbors and see all as our community. I’ve always believed this. I also welcome societal structure conversations with “my” family, and want them to give thoughtful true answers to me. They mean more than anything to me, and are so much more important than anything, their happiness

 

[RamsayBolton]

Some of you all seriously think skinny / slim is an identifier?

That’s insulting

you should see the threads where a good looking black woman (that doesnt even have a septum ring piercing) gets posted and brehs are like "post her white bf/husband"

eliminating themselves from competition