I can tolerate one of the two like if someone just asked for help but appreciates it and are enjoyable to be around that’s fine or if they say dumb shyt but they aren’t takers and it’s just mutual time that’s fine too but I just can’t take both the taking dynamic AND the disrespect I told the nikka you have never treated anyone as poorly as you two have treated me… I just confronted cause I wanted to make sure I didn’t cause the shyt… they said I didn’t do I am able to accept it and move on … gotta look at life to and it’s forces if life makes a nikka turn a certain way we’ll I’m not powerful enough to change it when I didn’t cause it
when you cut a homie off do you ghost them or confront them?
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It depends on what the reason is I stop fukking with them. But most if the time, I just move on in silence.
For example, I had a friend who was notorious for disapearing every time he had a girlfriend. Like, you would not see him for years, then once the girl dumped him, he'd pop back up. At some point I told him that that was not cool. Next girlfriend, dude goes M.I.A. again so I just wrote him off. When he started reaching out again a couple of years later, asking me why he hadn't heard from me for so long I just send him this
For example, I had a friend who was notorious for disapearing every time he had a girlfriend. Like, you would not see him for years, then once the girl dumped him, he'd pop back up. At some point I told him that that was not cool. Next girlfriend, dude goes M.I.A. again so I just wrote him off. When he started reaching out again a couple of years later, asking me why he hadn't heard from me for so long I just send him this
I got two homies like this but I only fukk w one. When shyt got hard in my life couple years back I suffered in silence for the most part. There were a few who knew what to say and do for me around the time. The homie I don’t fukk w reached out to me but only because he found out that I was going through it but I was reaching out to him telling happy bday regular shyt no response couple years before no response. He was mad I was gonna fade him because he slammed my finger on the car door and I gave him a I told you so speech because he didn’t wanna listen to me when I told him his bytch wasn’t good for him and he loses his identity to whoever he dates that took a major toll on the friendship.(I damn there was gonna fukk his bytch because she was a freak like that I got to rub on her p*ssy and tittys) Like this bytch turned him to a drug addict popping E damn there everyday. The difference between my other homie was he would reach out every blue moon and I didn’t mind that because I know he has a good woman by his side and I support their now marriage. I just saw him few months back we catch up on a yearly basis I’ve known him since the 90s.It depends on what the reason is I stop fukking with them. But most if the time, I just move on in silence.
For example, I had a friend who was notorious for disapearing every time he had a girlfriend. Like, you would not see him for years, then once the girl dumped him, he'd pop back up. At some point I told him that that was not cool. Next girlfriend, dude goes M.I.A. again so I just wrote him off. When he started reaching out again a couple of years later, asking me why he hadn't heard from me for so long I just send him this
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
In the midst of time, when shyt hits the fan, a person's true character will come into the light.
In this lifetime, you'll have to cutoff frenemies, family members, ex broads and associates. People who are fake-nice, envious, jealous or throw low-key shots at you are the worst. They're putting a façade until shyt happens. Got to keep the grass cut to expose the scammers, liars and the fakes!
I cut off dudes for trying to run game on me. I cut off dudes for not paying me back. I cut off broads for lacking self awareness and being stupid. This happened throughout my late teens and 20's.
I give people a chance until they start to get overbearing and disrespectful. Always set boundaries during the start of the interaction or unless you'll get game run on you. Word from the wise -- Self respect comes first juuu heard!
In this lifetime, you'll have to cutoff frenemies, family members, ex broads and associates. People who are fake-nice, envious, jealous or throw low-key shots at you are the worst. They're putting a façade until shyt happens. Got to keep the grass cut to expose the scammers, liars and the fakes!
I cut off dudes for trying to run game on me. I cut off dudes for not paying me back. I cut off broads for lacking self awareness and being stupid. This happened throughout my late teens and 20's.
I give people a chance until they start to get overbearing and disrespectful. Always set boundaries during the start of the interaction or unless you'll get game run on you. Word from the wise -- Self respect comes first juuu heard!
2 huge red flags; never ignore those.
your homies supposed to big you up and celebrate you.