DaddyFresh
Superstar
Same. Too old to be teaching nikkas their wrong ways
when you cut a homie off do you ghost them or confront them?
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I ain’t got a single nikka I’m close enough with to have a man to man about how I’m about to cut ties 
If you fukked up or took it there that shyt is over then and there.
If you fukked up or took it there that shyt is over then and there.
He is saying “the system” is you ignoring the signs once a nikka enters the system it’s over is his point… it’s a fine line you gotta give at least one or two chances or you will know no one but you can’t give too muchhow did I ignore the signs when I confronted on sight; meaning in real time the issue I wasn't feeling
I even have a system I explained in earlier posts....
damn breh ice cold.....or maybe he got some deeply rooted issues.....I could never cut my brothers off 1 offense...we been thru some shyt
lol no need for a farewell speech they’ll get the hint
the only way a “confrontation” is necessary is if they do something on the spot that needs to be responded to immediately…I’ll let them know what’s good and then not fukk with them after that point…other than that I don’t feel the need to explain myself or have a conversation about some shyt that’s not gonna get resolved imo
the only way a “confrontation” is necessary is if they do something on the spot that needs to be responded to immediately…I’ll let them know what’s good and then not fukk with them after that point…other than that I don’t feel the need to explain myself or have a conversation about some shyt that’s not gonna get resolved imo
Trojan 24
Veteran
Never cut anyone off but a breh I lent money to never hit me up again or payed up. I'm not even tripping about the money, but I wont reach out off GP . So in a way we ghosted each other I guess. Fine with me 
Yea that’s why I asked these long time friends if I did anything wrong ? I went over what they did they got defensive made excuses then they contacted me like crazy after I confronted them… Shows the guilt… but my friend said some shyt you never say then kept me at a distance then acted like it was cool after sometime but we not 17 anymore it’s mid thirties I can’t do this toxic shyt with just friends anymore I just can’tdamn breh ice cold.....or maybe he got some deeply rooted issues.....I could never cut my brothers off 1 offense...we been thru some shyt
everybody can't go breh
its just wild cause its from people u been thru it all with.....shyt make you wanna put in the worst pain cause of that feeling of betrayal.....its that betrayal when u were riding 2gether that I can't stomach
Some folk might not be able to relate in that sense cause maybe they never had those bonds/experiences. Some peoples definition of a real homie is a lot looser than mine prolly
Smokin Rider
I been official
Yeah I just had people I known since middle school be on some slick hating type shyt. Wanna be cool but then jealous when I started doing better than them. That was the clear difference, when they got promoted I was on some "hell yeah bro thats wassup man you deserve it". When I got paid higher than they did with no education they on some "how did you even do that? You get paid X to do Y?! Thats wild". Like yeah bytch wassup, you could asked how to get put on but you aint cool in my book no more you out 
Just blocked them and KIM. One friend got too drunk and got mad and wanted to fight me at the casino and I said ok but why am I fighting you we aint even had a problem a minute ago, he couldn't answer then just said "you aint never come to my birthday party"
Goofy ass people, can't do it.
Just blocked them and KIM. One friend got too drunk and got mad and wanted to fight me at the casino and I said ok but why am I fighting you we aint even had a problem a minute ago, he couldn't answer then just said "you aint never come to my birthday party"
Goofy ass people, can't do it.
All of this is life lessons...its just wild cause its from people u been thru it all with.....shyt make you wanna put in the worst pain cause of that feeling of betrayal.....its that betrayal when u were riding 2gether that I can't stomach
Some folk might not be able to relate in that sense cause maybe they never had those bonds/experiences. Some peoples definition of a real homie is a lot looser than mine prolly
The ones closet to you, will hurt you the most.
I've been numb for quite sometime, and kinda have low expectations of people.
I'll never change, self-care, self-love, sanity above all
Smokin Rider
I been official
Real talk, I just got out of a 7 year relationship with a girl and was in a low then lost these couple friends cause they was on some goofiness when they was supposed to help keep me lifted. Learned to love myself in this process and not need for nothing. The only people I be talkin to is my cousin and my neighbors to watch the game. Solid surface level shyt tho but nobody draggin me down or into shyt
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
I cut them off and never tell them that they're cut off or even why.
The reason being... if I cut you off, then it's because you really moved foul. And I don't want to warn you that I see you. I want to see what else you do.
But you're definitely cut off.
The reason being... if I cut you off, then it's because you really moved foul. And I don't want to warn you that I see you. I want to see what else you do.
But you're definitely cut off.
Im not treating grown men like kids
nikkas know what they doing before they do it..
If they don't go out their way to correct the situation ASAP, what exactly is there to discuss afterwards
BaKardi Slang
Caribbean-Canadian 🇦🇬
I typically tell people why I'm cutting them off these days. After that, I delete numbers, unfollow/block social media accounts and K.I.M.. If they try to be cordial after that in person (saying hi and all of that stupid shyt), I just ignore it and they typically stop after that. If I decide to cut somebody off, that essentially means you no longer exist so fukk cordiality at that point. I've been told this is dramatic, but this is normal procedure for me.
I typically cut people off over bullshyt though, and often I cut off my entire friend circle at a time. I'd say 95% of the time I cut people off is unwarranted
I typically cut people off over bullshyt though, and often I cut off my entire friend circle at a time. I'd say 95% of the time I cut people off is unwarranted