When you got dumped.

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What was said to you by your partner? I've been dumped twice. Once via text, I know, shyt is lame. Eff that bee. Every time I open my text messages my phone scrolls up like a year and I have to see what she said again. It's infuriating but motivational.

My first break up the chick said her family didn't approve of me. I still don't understand that. She tried to throw me some ass years after she dumped me and tried to embarrass me. I ended up hooking up with her best friend, making out with her, and getting a chick's number while on a date with her. Revenge was sweet.

My second break up was world shattering. She invited me over to her house and started talking about some other nikka. Asking me what I thought of him and shyt. She didn't actually break up with me. I was crushed. I didn't show it, never will, and don't plan to.

My third break up changed me at my core. Ill never be the person I was before I dated her. My friends say my relationship with her was equal to two marriages. This girl would tell me she loved me and wanted to have my kids. She told me I'm caught up in my feelings and they're affecting her differently. She also said she likes being my girlfriend because I spoil her but she didn't want the emotional baggage.

But she still wanted the D. Matter of fact all those bytches wanted the D after they dumped me. People tell me I've changed. I'm a real cold dude, but it's only because I've been in relationships where shyt is on the line and I've taken my L's. I was legit friends with all the girls I dated so I lost a friend too.

I used to live to attract women. Now I'd rather just skateboard or cook food. I used to want a family and marriage now I don't care either way because there's no way in willing to trust a woman with my future again.
 

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What was said to you by your partner? I've been dumped twice. Once via text, I know, shyt is lame. Eff that bee. Every time I open my text messages my phone scrolls up like a year and I have to see what she said again. It's infuriating but motivational.

My first break up the chick said her family didn't approve of me. I still don't understand that. She tried to throw me some ass years after she dumped me and tried to embarrass me. I ended up hooking up with her best friend, making out with her, and getting a chick's number while on a date with her. Revenge was sweet.

My second break up was world shattering. She invited me over to her house and started talking about some other nikka. Asking me what I thought of him and shyt. She didn't actually break up with me. I was crushed. I didn't show it, never will, and don't plan to.

My third break up changed me at my core. Ill never be the person I was before I dated her. My friends say my relationship with her was equal to two marriages. This girl would tell me she loved me and wanted to have my kids. She told me I'm caught up in my feelings and they're affecting her differently. She also said she likes being my girlfriend because I spoil her but she didn't want the emotional baggage.

But she still wanted the D. Matter of fact all those bytches wanted the D after they dumped me. People tell me I've changed. I'm a real cold dude, but it's only because I've been in relationships where shyt is on the line and I've taken my L's. I was legit friends with all the girls I dated so I lost a friend too.

I used to live to attract women. Now I'd rather just skateboard or cook food. I used to want a family and marriage now I don't care either way because there's no way in willing to trust a woman with my future again.
We all have made this mistake in life or most of us. It only leads to trouble . Once you put your hobbies ect on the back burner it ends up hurting you.
 

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"I'm good. You think you know everything, don't listen to me and think your ish doesn't stink. I will always love you. When you get your mind right, come see me."

He still frequently visits my mother but has not contacted me at all :(. I asked my mom not to entertain him but she refused. I don't know who hurt me more...but mom's are supposed to have your back...so her. But I punish her for entertaining him in my own way.
 

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"I'm good. You think you know everything, don't listen to me and think your ish doesn't stink. I will always love you. When you get your mind right, come see me."

He still frequently visits my mother but has not contacted me at all :(. I asked my mom not to entertain him but she refused. I don't know who hurt me more...but mom's are supposed to have your back...so her. But I punish her for entertaining him in my own way.
I'll take him out if you want me too

:birdman:
 

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"I'm good. You think you know everything, don't listen to me and think your ish doesn't stink. I will always love you. When you get your mind right, come see me."

He still frequently visits my mother but has not contacted me at all :(. I asked my mom not to entertain him but she refused. I don't know who hurt me more...but mom's are supposed to have your back...so her. But I punish her for entertaining him in my own way.
Why ur mum got love for him?

My break ups made me really cold hearted too.
 

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sweetest revenge was from about 6 years ago. girl broke up with me during holiday season (around christmas time). i was devastated. she even returned the gift she had bought me. (i know this cause i read her emails. yup i sure did.). i also checked her phone records, found out she went and hung out with this one male "friend" of hers late at night. i called her the next day to confront her about it. she was furious. why u checking my phone, blah blah. he's just a friend. we were talking about u. lol. i was yellling at her on the phone, she hung up. and that was that. i never called her again.

about 2 months later. she never sent me the keys to house. so i texted her to have her send it. she calls me immediately and starts to cry. says she misses me but the relationship just cant work because her father (he's racist) wont allow it and her mother is so so about it. this i knew already. but shes crying on the phone. so that phone call led to more phone calls. we started talking again. told her i was seeing someone new. at first it didn't seem to bother her. but over time, when i would tell her i goto get off the phone because diane and i have plans, it started to irritate her. lol. i knew what i was doing.

eventually she goes, can you stop talking to that girl??? now, i wasn't really into diane. at all. but i just kinda dated her because she was really into me. but the presence of diane was driving my ex off the wall. there'd be many times id tell my ex to call me, and when she called, i wouldn't pick up. and she'd be blowing up my phone. one time she called and her number came up on my television screen as i was watching a movie with diane. diane didn't like that at all. so i'm thinking, "hmm, here's another opportunity to stick it to her". so i had diane pick up the phone to tell my ex "he's not here. who's this?". now, no one answers my phone bbut me. so when dianed picked up, it wrecked my ex. she hung up on diane and starts to blow up my phone again. where are you??

and when i didn't respond, she goes "u know what, i cant take this. i wish u the best with diane". to which i responded: "ok. wish you well in your future endeavors".

she responded:

"that wasn't the response i was looking for. i thought u'd at least fight for us".

but wait, i wasn't done.

she came through to the crib once. we fuccked. and she was under the illusion we were now back together. lol. i told her i'd break up with diane that night. so when that night came. i told her, i'm going to take diane out to dinner and kindly let her down. and sure enough, when night time came, i took diane out to dinner. and i conveniently turned off my phone for the night. and no, i didn't break up with her. diane spent the night. after diane left next morning, i check my phone and see that i've got like 65 missed calls, and like 5 or 6 voicemails.

lol. yeah. revenge was sweet. the story is much longer than this but im tired of typing lol
 

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Why ur mum got love for him?

My break ups made me really cold hearted too.

Besides asking her one time not to entertain him anymore, I haven't really confronted her about it or revealed just how much it hurts that she accepts his visits in her home, receives/places phone calls, listens to him, gives him motherly advise, accepts/asks for favors from him. If I had to take a guess it would be the repoire that he built with her when we were together. My mom is elderly and lives alone and he often drops by to check on her - secures her hurricane shutters if needed, flips her mattress, picks up her prescriptions, brings her favorite rib sandwich, lifts heavy objects, and is just attentive in general. It's not only my Mom - 2 of my cousins are in constant contact with him and have invited him to family gatherings/holiday parties, a family reunion, and the classics...and on and on. [BTW - All of my brothers live out of town and my mom is widowed]

I'm tired of every single last one of them :(:(:(:(
 

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I'm tired of every single last one of them :(:(:(:(
Damn, sounds like them situations where not only a woman falls in love, but the whole dang family does to. Yall might have broken up, but they for damn sure haven't.

:francis:

Has he not found a new relationship yet? Cause a new woman tends to cut shyt like this off immediately. Or are yall holding out for each other?
 

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Damn, sounds like them situations where not only a woman falls in love, but the whole dang family does to. Yall might have broken up, but they for damn sure haven't.

:francis:

Has he not found a new relationship yet? Cause a new woman tends to cut shyt like this off immediately. Or are yall holding out for each other?

Yes, he's been with someone new [I know this for a fact because she called my house/cell phone when they began to see each other] He does not claim relationship status with her to my family.
I am done and won't go back.
If they love him so much then they can have him.
 
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