When You Realize That Chick You Thought Was So Fly And Beautiful...

[Kenny West]

Damn near every post you made in this thread is either about you defending your decision to date a bum ass single mom, or to defend the triffling broad you made this thread complaining about.

That cape is flapping b

 

[Po pimp]

It was me who originally said she didn't have a job...my bad on that. I just assumed that since you called her broke, she was living off alimony and child support payments. But that's neither here nor there.

The MAIN point is that it took a year for you to realize this. I'm sure she threw hints that she was a terrible person, but you probably ignored it. She would probably clown on someody's gear for nor reason, laugh at someone's misfortune, and you probably laughed and said "baby, you so CRAZY!"

True enough, people may not show their ENTIRE side when they first meet someone, but this doesn't seem to be the case judging by the way you described her. She seemed to have no shame, saying things like "that's just how I am" after she says some fukked up shyt....like she takes pride in her behavior.

 

[Black Thunder]

.....simp ass nikka, chances are you was sharing that mutt anyway, its the old time rule nikka

treat queens like whores and whores like queens, easy peezy japaneezy

 

[Heafcliffe]

...is a miserable bytch on the inside. shyt can change your whole world.

A year ago around this time, I was friends/dating a woman that I didn't have a bad word to say about. She has a magnetic character about her and looks like a chick anybody would wanna cuff up, or at least smash on the regular. We had a lotta common interests and seemed to hit it off from the minute we met. She had some funny ways about her, but everybody does so it was no big deal. Truth told, I caught feelin's somethin' serious.

But a year later... naw bruh. This broad's head is in the clouds to a point where she basically admitted that she just shyts on people for whatever reason she wants to, and has no desire to change that part of her personality. Then I come to find out, she used to have it made as a housewife with a husband who provided for her and the kids, but fukked it up to deal with nikkas who didn't give her shyt. So now, she cries the blues all the time because she's broke with kids to take care of, and STILL carries the attitude that got her there. The thing about it is, she truly believes that this type of shyt is OK cause "that's who I am" and if a person can't deal with that, he must be "weak". But I look at it more like any nikka who WOULD put up with that shyt is weak. It's never registered in her mind that maybe bein' like this hasn't worked out too good for her.

And no bullshyt, I used to feel bad for her predicament until all the bad shyt about her started becoming obvious. Now it's become plain to see that she's fukked up all the way around with no chance of improvement in sight. She's bitter inside, preys on people she can take it out on, and constantly needs people around to boost her ego because she knows she ain't shyt. I used to try to understand and forgive her little fukked-up ways, til I realized it's not "ways" like most people have- this is HER. It took a few fallouts, numerous attempts to salvage things, and a few conversations about what the hell her problem was to finally see it.

I used to think I just needed more backbone to deal with her, but a fukkin' dinosaur ain't got enough backbone to handle that. If she'll fukk her marriage up like she did and have a 'whatever' attitude about it, her sense of entitlement will never allow her to be happy. A woman that was happy with herself wouldn't be evil to people just because she can, and act like something's wrong with them if they don't like it. She's bad as all hell on the outside, but Monique in 'Precious' levels of miserable.

Ever met the type? Speak on it...

HELLS G'YEAH!!!! And the bytch was in Bmore too (used to live there). Does this bytch have 2 kids and work for BOA at one point?!? All the shyt you talking sounds just like, i mean, exactly like the chick I am talking about.

 

[muse]

i learned long story short- everything happens for a reason

really, people have shytty lives because they deserve it. there are people who seem to just have a dark cloud following them for reasons unbeknownst to you. they really deserve that shyt. they lie, they manipulate, they play dumb, they take advantage, they're mean and dont give a fukk. i hate to say it, but they put themselves in that situation with things they do that they think is harmless but really isnt. karma is real. just because i bashed your car window out doesnt mean my car window will get bashed out in return. maybe i'll break my leg

so im glad you eventually learned. but when you see someone who just cant seem to get out of a bad situation and seem oblivious to the reasons why, now you know. they did fukked up shyt in their past and are still fukking up and thats why their luck wont change

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

@ da OP split personality goin HAM up in here tho.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

@ da OP split personality goin HAM up in here tho.

He's a high ranking military official. Some might even say he's a captain

 

[sandman]

all this dude cared about was her looks, thought folks got past that as a young age , this nugga had the cape out to save a chick that had no job and kids


hell i wouldn't mess with a jobless chick because i already know i'd have to pay for everything but she also had kids? gosh damn breh, taking them all out to chuckee cheese etc.

all i have to say is

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

...is a miserable bytch on the inside. shyt can change your whole world.

A year ago around this time, I was friends/dating a woman that I didn't have a bad word to say about. She has a magnetic character about her and looks like a chick anybody would wanna cuff up, or at least smash on the regular. We had a lotta common interests and seemed to hit it off from the minute we met. She had some funny ways about her, but everybody does so it was no big deal. Truth told, I caught feelin's somethin' serious.

But a year later... naw bruh. This broad's head is in the clouds to a point where she basically admitted that she just shyts on people for whatever reason she wants to, and has no desire to change that part of her personality. Then I come to find out, she used to have it made as a housewife with a husband who provided for her and the kids, but fukked it up to deal with nikkas who didn't give her shyt. So now, she cries the blues all the time because she's broke with kids to take care of, and STILL carries the attitude that got her there. The thing about it is, she truly believes that this type of shyt is OK cause "that's who I am" and if a person can't deal with that, he must be "weak". But I look at it more like any nikka who WOULD put up with that shyt is weak. It's never registered in her mind that maybe bein' like this hasn't worked out too good for her.

And no bullshyt, I used to feel bad for her predicament until all the bad shyt about her started becoming obvious. Now it's become plain to see that she's fukked up all the way around with no chance of improvement in sight. She's bitter inside, preys on people she can take it out on, and constantly needs people around to boost her ego because she knows she ain't shyt. I used to try to understand and forgive her little fukked-up ways, til I realized it's not "ways" like most people have- this is HER. It took a few fallouts, numerous attempts to salvage things, and a few conversations about what the hell her problem was to finally see it.

I used to think I just needed more backbone to deal with her, but a fukkin' dinosaur ain't got enough backbone to handle that. If she'll fukk her marriage up like she did and have a 'whatever' attitude about it, her sense of entitlement will never allow her to be happy. A woman that was happy with herself wouldn't be evil to people just because she can, and act like something's wrong with them if they don't like it. She's bad as all hell on the outside, but Monique in 'Precious' levels of miserable.

Ever met the type? Speak on it...

I know this type

I used to be a simp breh some yrs ago. I would see these fine sexy dime women with dudes that would treat them like trash. I finally woke up one day to the fact that the reason they get with dudes like that is because they are no better than the dude. both of them are terrible ppl

That's when I finally realized that just cause a girl got a slim waist, fat ass and pretty face, it was nothing special about her

She was... just... a... woman. once I realized that one simple fact, I ascended to another level and haven't looked back since. that was around 7 yrs ago


Any updates, op ?

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

I know this type

I used to be a simp breh some yrs ago. I would see these fine sexy dime women with dudes that would treat them like trash. I finally woke up one day to the fact that the reason they get with dudes like that is because they are no better than the dude. both of them are terrible ppl

That's when I finally realized that just cause a girl got a slim waist, fat ass and pretty face, it was nothing special about her

She was... just... a... woman. once I realized that one simple fact, I ascended to another level and haven't looked back since. that was around 7 yrs ago


Any updates, op ?

I ended up having a baby with mines

 

[DrX]

u gotta value a person spirit and not how they look....ppl put on false facades everyday...wearing expensive cloths, driving expensive cars and theyll be the biggest pieces of shyt

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