When you set up a date , on the day of the date Let the girl contact you 1st to confirm the date

[MikelArteta]

its really not about confirming. its how you do it.

most guys who dont understand the game will say some sh1t like:

"are we still on for tonight"

the more experienced guys will say something like:

"see you later at 8" --> notice how i'm not asking her sh1t.
"here's the address. ima leave my place at 530pm. see u soon".

what these messages are doing is, they're telling her exactly what's going to happen. if shes gon be running late or whatever, she'll text u back quick.

saying "are we still on for tonight" conveys to her you've been canceled on in the past by many girls.

I use the are we still on for tonight, if she flakes and cancels shrugs or concocts whatever in her mind . Won't see me asking again.

I stopped giving a damn what a woman thinks long ago, but I see what your saying though.

I was suppose to meet a chick at starbucks on sunday, she "was sick", I just said allright and I went anyways. Anything I plan, ima do regardles

 

[TRUEST]

I use the are we still on for tonight, if she flakes and cancels shrugs or concocts whatever in her mind . Won't see me asking again.

I stopped giving a damn what a woman thinks long ago, but I see what your saying though.

I was suppose to meet a chick at starbucks on sunday, she "was sick", I just said allright and I went anyways. Anything I plan, ima do regardles

the fact that u had to ask woulda pissed me off.

her: i'm sick
me:

dont say sh1t.

 

[MikelArteta]

the fact that u had to ask woulda pissed me off.

her: i'm sick
me:

dont say sh1t.

 

[Ashley Banks]

If the guy didn't call me to confirm it, I would assume he changed his mind.

 

[Nymbus]

In my experience most girls are Terrified of coming across "thirsty" or taking what they feel to be the masculine role so they'll fall back and be analyzing the situation appearing aloof when they really like Watchin YOUR actions
but they warm up real quick once you get them in person

Co sign,not wasting time with chicks that aren't interested but don't be so sensitive all the time give things a minute to cook

 

[Cowboyz89]

Most women are used to men pursuing them. So, sometimes, if she's not confirming on date day for a date YOU invited her on, it may be because she assumes you are taking the lead since YOU invited her on the date in the first place so she's sitting there like, "how is he going to invite me to dinner Saturday night and then Saturday rolls around and I don't hear nothing from him?" By then she may have gotten her hair and nails done, picked out an outfit or gone shopping for one, made arrangements and informed her friends....but then you don't call cause you waiting to see if she's serious based on whether SHE calls. That's a missed opportunity for both parties.

i think guys miss (or choose to ignore) the signs A LOT.

this is me.
I saw this guy at my graduation that looks like he needs to be added to my roster , but I can't approach him.

Yea we do sometimes...but a lot of "signs" that women give are inconsistent or dont come across in the way they attend. A common one is that a woman will briefly look towards a guy before looking away. Maybe that means youre interested, or maybe it means you were looking at a dozen other things in the room where we standing in. If women made moves instead of signs the entire dating game would change for the better.

As for the second quote, you should just take a chance. The average guy will be way more approachable then the average women because it happens less often to us. We dont feel a sense of entitlement that it should happen or a "uuughhhh why is this nikka coming over here" kind of attitude if we arent interested. I see ugly women approach men occasionally and rarely get a rude rejection.... Not to mention that really all you would have to do is walk up to the guy and smile and say hi or a brief sentence or 2. Chances are he would then lead the conversation from there since that is what he is used to doing anyway.

 

[CinnaSlim]

I realize I never have to formally confirm dates because either me and the guy talk to each other often and it comes up beforehand or because I usually ask for details like ok, when, where, what time are we meeting up/ you picking me up, what movie are we watching/ what do you want to do, so when it comes up I'm ready.

So idk that kinda is confirming in a way. If anything I'll ask on the day, "are you on your way or what time are you leaving?" Because I like punctuality and hate wasting my time.