When you set up a date , on the day of the date Let the girl contact you 1st to confirm the date

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What if she's waiting on you to confirm :stopitslime:

Then no one goes on the date.


exactly, and its nothing i hate more than expecting food only to be let down
i dont play when it comes to meals
means to get your ass thrown in the bushes
 

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What if she contacts you first to let you know that she actually can't make it? :huh:
 
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This... I don't rely on women to ever make the first move. A lifetime of being catered to and worshipped has made them weak cowards who are scared of the word no. A lot of women will be obsessed with you but never do anything about it but look.

:mjlol: This is ALL TRUE.
 

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Most women are used to men pursuing them. So, sometimes, if she's not confirming on date day for a date YOU invited her on, it may be because she assumes you are taking the lead since YOU invited her on the date in the first place so she's sitting there like, "how is he going to invite me to dinner Saturday night and then Saturday rolls around and I don't hear nothing from him?" By then she may have gotten her hair and nails done, picked out an outfit or gone shopping for one, made arrangements and informed her friends....but then you don't call cause you waiting to see if she's serious based on whether SHE calls. That's a missed opportunity for both parties.
 

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I'm only gonna contact ur ass once just to confirm for our date that same day and let u know if ur running late let me know and i will do the same in return. Dont matter who contacts who first as long as someone does it


i get no contact from u and i show up sitting their alone for awhile :camby: ur ass will go
got me looking like a damn fool :mjcry:

thankful that has never happened too me before at all or yet :whew:
 

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Nah. Females are passive aggressive.

You can call to confirm a date. if she cancels on you or sounds disinterested then you can throw her in the bushes.

You guys are so caught up in analyzing meaningless bullshyt. Look at the female in her face and TALK TO HER, it will be obvious how she feels about you. Girls aren't good liars. if they don't wanna be around you you'll know.
:stopitslime:is it possible for keyboard warriors and virgins to do that:lupe:
 

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How can women use me for free meals, when i don't buy women food?

Your logic is flawed.

i got a lot of female relatives and friends too. i see the way they treat these simps. if you don't wanna get played DON'T CHASE FEMALES WHO HAVE NO INTEREST IN YOU.

Girls make it blatantly obvious when they're not interested. Read the signs. Take your L. Leave them alone. If you wanna keep sweating them to hangout ofcourse they're gonna break your pockets.
i think guys miss (or choose to ignore) the signs A LOT.

This... I don't rely on women to ever make the first move. A lifetime of being catered to and worshipped has made them weak cowards who are scared of the word no. A lot of women will be obsessed with you but never do anything about it but look.
this is me.
I saw this guy at my graduation that looks like he needs to be added to my roster :steviej:, but I can't approach him. :to:
 

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You should always make sure a chick is interested in you BEFORE setting up a formal date and you will never have to worry about stuff like this.
 

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Screw that I'm confirming

its really not about confirming. its how you do it.

most guys who dont understand the game will say some sh1t like:

"are we still on for tonight"

the more experienced guys will say something like:

"see you later at 8" --> notice how i'm not asking her sh1t.
"here's the address. ima leave my place at 530pm. see u soon".

what these messages are doing is, they're telling her exactly what's going to happen. if shes gon be running late or whatever, she'll text u back quick.

saying "are we still on for tonight" conveys to her you've been canceled on in the past by many girls.
 
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