Where do you typically meet women to date? [poll]

Where

  • I don’t date or meet women. I got 0 hoes

    Votes: 24 29.3%
  • Online

    Votes: 26 31.7%
  • in real life out and about throughout the day

    Votes: 30 36.6%
  • Thru other friends and acquaintances

    Votes: 24 29.3%
  • Bars

    Votes: 14 17.1%
  • restaurants

    Votes: 5 6.1%
  • Clubs

    Votes: 6 7.3%
  • grocery stores

    Votes: 13 15.9%
  • Events

    Votes: 19 23.2%
  • Other

    Votes: 11 13.4%

  • Total voters
    82

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#1. First is the mental approach. You have to love the game of talking to women more than wanting to get their number or get a date. You have to love talking to 5+ women a day, and then do it again tomorrow. The end result has to be secondary to the game

#2. I don't care what anyone says. Compliments about their physical appearance as an opener works the best. It subconsciously tells her that you are not here to be her friend, and that you are confident. You can talk about other things as the conversation goes along

#3. Be enthusiastic. One of the most underrated things is enthusiasm goes a long way, it shows you are interested in getting to know her, and that you are confident that the conversation is going great
 

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#1. First is the mental approach. You have to love the game of talking to women more than wanting to get their number or get a date. You have to love talking to 5+ women a day, and then do it again tomorrow. The end result has to be secondary to the game

#2. I don't care what anyone says. Compliments about their physical appearance as an opener works the best. It subconsciously tells her that you are not here to be her friend, and that you are confident. You can talk about other things as the conversation goes along

#3. Be enthusiastic. One of the most underrated things is enthusiasm goes a long way, it shows you are interested in getting to know her, and that you are confident that the conversation is going great
#3. Which you think is better? Enthusiasm and excitement which might come across as desperate Or chill, cool, calm or a mix?

How long are your interactions? Mine are usually like 2 mins… in and out lol cuz they’re usually on the move anyway. I’m direct

Example: “I saw you and thought you were cute so I wanted to come meet you. What’s your name?” I get the number 1 out of 2 or 1 out of 3 times with that approach
 

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#1. First is the mental approach. You have to love the game of talking to women more than wanting to get their number or get a date. You have to love talking to 5+ women a day, and then do it again tomorrow. The end result has to be secondary to the game

#2. I don't care what anyone says. Compliments about their physical appearance as an opener works the best. It subconsciously tells her that you are not here to be her friend, and that you are confident. You can talk about other things as the conversation goes along

#3. Be enthusiastic. One of the most underrated things is enthusiasm goes a long way, it shows you are interested in getting to know her, and that you are confident that the conversation is going great
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#3. Which you think is better? Enthusiasm and excitement which might come across as desperate Or chill, cool, calm or a mix?

How long are your interactions? Mine are usually like 2 mins… in and out lol cuz they’re usually on the move anyway. I’m direct

Example: “I saw you and thought you were cute so I wanted to come meet you. What’s your name?” I get the number 1 out of 2 or 1 out of 3 times with that approach


That is good, very direct and to the point
As far as time, I play it by ear. If she has the time, I can talk for 5-10 minutes no problem. If not, then yeah short and sweet and to the point


So to answer your question, I say enthusiasm all the way with a little touch of calm. I'm telling you, enthusiasm is so important. Trying to come off too cool can turn into a domino effect of you not sounding authentic, then it turns into lacking confidence, or her looking at you as too much of a player
And not enthusiastic like a Dora the Explorer/Barney sense, but more like a detective needing to solve a case
 

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:martin: to those mentioning online dating sites/apps to meet women

They're all FAKE:comeon:

:scust: bunch of f*kits w/ fake profiles
:martin: and the scam w/ the apps you gotta pay to see who connected etc..
:comeon:none of these "women" want to meet in person to ensure they are actually real women
:comeon:and as soon as your paid time on the app is about to expire you best believe you about to get a million "matches" to try and keep you on these apps
:martin:the only "real" women on those apps are actors/paid employees to keep you engaged there are no "real" naturally born women on those apps.

:martin: bars..unless you're living in a warmer climate city/ it has been my experience that most of these bars are just filled w/ cac f*kits:scust::pacspit::pacspit:
:wow:ive got to get back to Miami
:blessed:the land filled w/ beautiful REAL women !!!
 

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Best advice I can give anyone is to be honest with your self; your well being will tell you exactly where to meet people.
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I'm in the field, I don't use dating apps at all. I'm not the biggest fan

I "speak" to a girl who went on 2 dates last week from dating apps, she had backup dates JIC - DMs flooded. She didn't like the men she met and was saying all sorts of fukkery about them.
 
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