Where is the worst place to date as a black man in America?

[Reality]

Lol BW can’t date in LA shyt is bullshyt these bytches just not getting the Hollywood nikkas they want and don’t wanna settle for Andre the port of LA truck driver that live in Carson who love black women but the quality ones overlook because he don’t live the fast life..it’s a cycle the bytches bring on theyself chasing a image IG told them they should chase

I disagree. Non-hoodrat, non-entertainer-wanna-be LA black women are the GOAT in my experience. They are the most open minded, chill black women in the US. I'd say you need to get out to the right spots, but there were black women on dating apps that I still think fondly of like . Legit content blowin trees, walking to the beach, and then catching a movie w/ their Saturday. The peace they brought me .

 

[AAKing23]

My time in the midwest has been limited (Mostly a few Ohio trips) but the little I've been out there I was getting mad looks. Funnily the midwest is probably the least likely place I would live in or one of them, I prefer to be by the coast and not in landlocked states. But I think I'd eat good out there I'd be more than good back home in the northeast in the Tri-State area for sure

Idk anything about the West since I've never been there, the South where I'm at now has been hot and cold honestly

 

[Cobalt Sire]

Palmdale, California. No one walks anywhere. The public transit sucks, so not many people get on it if they have cars. It's very, very hard to come across a woman to talk to in daily life. It's kind of a small town, so there's only like 20 active women on dating sites for months, so you better make it count and not strike out. The nightlife is bare. Many nights nothing is going on, and this was before the pandemic. You have to be connected and have young, single friends that are still in party mode, so you can go to functions to see women. Problem is, women are on guard at parties and clubs. Sometimes the music is too loud, so it's hard to talk.

When I lived in Sacramento, If I walked around for 20 minutes, I'd pass by at least 20 attractive women that I could start a conversation with. I would get on the light rail train and opportunities would present themselves, or even just waiting for the train and bus stops. Plus there were bars and clubs in downtown and oldtown.

Some cities just suck. You have to live in a city where women walk around. If you live in an isolated place where no one is walking around except in stores, it's gonna be hard to meet people.

 

[brooklyn_boulevard]

@Cobalt Sire is Sacramento as good as the coli makes it when it comes to women?

 

[Cobalt Sire]

@Cobalt Sire is Sacramento as good as the coli makes it when it comes to women?

You'll find better in LA or the Bay. Sacramento is a second rate city, but you can eat out there.

 

[BlackJesus]

If you're primarily trying to date BW, then you can pretty much eat in any city with a major black population.

If you're trying to date interracial, then you should avoid the northeast. Honestly the new south (VA, NC, GA, FL, TX) are probably some of the best places if you're tryna to date pawgs. West coast if you're into mexican and asian chicks and also white women.


So to answer your questions.

1. The worst place if you don't want to be restricted by your race is NYC. If you want black women and latinas it's great. But outside of that, it'll be far more difficult than most other places in the country. Blame the aggressive ass new york nikkas for that.

2. The worst place if you want to date only BW, would probably be the midwest, or really any state that has a low black pop.

For shyts and giggles I changed my dating app location to NYC and was eating. You really think NYC is bad for brehs? Get real.

If I had to say a place I’d probably say the Midwest. The lack of attractive women combined with racist attitudes doesn’t help brehs

 

[Anno Domini]

For shyts and giggles I changed my dating app location to NYC and was eating. You really think NYC is bad for brehs? Get real.

If I had to say a place I’d probably say the Midwest. The lack of attractive women combined with racist attitudes doesn’t help brehs

Good for you.

I never said it was impossible just that it was harder than most other places if you're not going for black/latino women.

 

[Mordith]

Germantown,Maryland

You must be ugly gang because not only are there plenty of fine women in Moco, but Germantown is also part of the DMV.

I ate just as well when I lived in Germantown/Moco as I do now in ATL.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

I’m legitimately surprised nobody mentioned Pennsylvania. That shyt is the worst for any single person.

 

[brooklyn_boulevard]

Good for you.

I never said it was impossible just that it was harder than most other places if you're not going for black/latino women.

Jersey is the same

 

[BlackJesus]

Good for you.

I never said it was impossible just that it was harder than most other places if you're not going for black/latino women.

I guess YMMV Every black dude may not have the same experience as me as I am college educated at a tier 1 college and fairly handsome

 

[1thouwow]

Gotta say that San Antonio was horrible for dating for me.

One I'm not into most Mexican women. Many were overweight and out of shape. Many worship white daddy. Low black population. I could be rocking a button down and jeans and people would think I was dressed up.

Also the fact that it's very blue collar, working class, everyone has kids by the time they're 21 it clashed with my urbane sensibilities.

Most Black men will play much better in metropolitan cities. Not small towns.

You Charles Barkley?

 

[Leao2005]

why are you using dating apps?

Good question because I haven’t anymore. Waste of time

 

[Asicz]

A spin thread should be Best places for dating

 

[Controversy]

If it isn't limited to race? I can't think of a place, really. W. Virginia maybe lol? I'd imagine this is uniquely difficult for black women if we're to believe the stories.

Morgantown got some hoes

Ain't nothing to do in WVa but drink & fck