Where is the worst place to date as a black man in America?

[Ziggiy]

Prison

 

[ViShawn]

Boston MA. Shyt is Ass. Trust me.

Why would you go there in the first place as a FBA man.

 

[MajesticLion]

I wouldn’t necessarily say “spoiled” as the QUALITY (and i’m talking mentally not looks) can leave something to be desired but overall i’ve had positive experiences.

Basically i’d say that if you just want a girlfriend or even situationship then yes, you can eat good. But if you’re looking for someone to settle down with you have to be a little more discerning. Wifey types aren’t falling out of trees here unless you’re @Born2BKing

Quality definitely has taken a hit, but that's across the board no matter what city you're in. A lot of fellas here operate like a 15+:1 ratio is normal everywhere else...and it isn't. Men are used to the idea of having to compete; most women are not.

The ratio in Atl don't really matter because every nikka dating 5 or 6 women, who all think he only dating them. Kind of makes the ratio irrelevant.

It absolutely matters. Those 5-6 don't count if you have 10+ more waiting in the wings feeling like they're missing out. The competition is savage, and they end up being predatory as hell. It's weird because fellas will get stuck with the "thirsty" tag quick, but these women...sheesh. From 0-Chiron speeds in a blink.

 

[Umoja]

I would not move to Alaska.

 

[humminbird]

I guess rural small town area

 

[IWasntMadeToPlayTheSon]

Idk but Atlanta is King

 

[Anno Domini]

If you're trying to only date black then I unfortunately agree.

Nyc is the worst if you're trying to date black women????

 

[I Really Mean It]

Depends on the black man. Not all of us are the same, some fitting in certain regions better than others. For instance, I highly doubt I’d have much success dating black women in Atlanta.

 

[Alvin]

This is a lowkey spin-off thread. Typically black women say that LA is the worst place to date for black women or they say black men aren't checking for black women, but what's the worst for a black man?

Two different approaches​

1. One isn't limited to age or race of woman you're looking for.
2. The other is if you only wanted to date within your race.

any place that is predominately white, or a place that doesn't have a active, visible black population that is educated and has a career (not some bullshyt low level job)

 

[Alvin]

This is a lowkey spin-off thread. Typically black women say that LA is the worst place to date for black women or they say black men aren't checking for black women, but what's the worst for a black man?

Two different approaches​

1. One isn't limited to age or race of woman you're looking for.
2. The other is if you only wanted to date within your race.

LA has a large black base and a visible, middle upper class black base as well. I feel only hating ass women say that dumb shyt. Now there are probably more black men dating interracially because the city is large and is diverse so it won't be like a Detroit or ATL. But I know blacks in compton, south central, ingelwood. view-park, baldwin hills are dating black. Also easy to find events or things black people go to and talk to another gender.

 

[Pure Water]

I too occasionally peak in over at LSA to see what they're talking about. A miserable bunch they are.

But to answer your question, in the US I would probably say some flyover state like ND, SD, NM, etc... We don't have the exact same problems as our brehettes do. I feel for them, I really do.

Disclaimer: I generally date black women.

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

Depends on the black man. Not all of us are the same, some fitting in certain regions better than others. For instance, I highly doubt I’d have much success dating black women in Atlanta.

Why is that? As an ATL resident I most definitely can tell you if your theory is correct.

 

[I Really Mean It]

Why is that? As an ATL resident I most definitely can tell you if your theory is correct.

I’m a cerebral and academic breh who isn’t about getting turnt up, listening to ATL-type music, hitting clubs, and being out in the scene like that. Mu impression of Atlanta is that of city filled with attention seeking clout chasers who like to seem as if they’re ballin. I believe the average black woman in Atl would find me to be a square.

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

I’m a cerebral and academic breh who isn’t about getting turnt up, listening to ATL-type music, hitting clubs, and being out in the scene like that. Mu impression of Atlanta is that of city filled with attention seeking clout chasers who like to seem as if they’re ballin. I believe the average black woman in Atl would find me to be a square.

Even negro nerds eat in Atlanta. You'd be fine.

 

[fifth column]

Miami but only if your scam game is on point