Yeah , especially with a white one . this is going to be a big issue.
Not only are you dealing with the typical buyers remorse that white women face from their peers, but you will also be dealing with the stigma of being simultaneously a man who is able-bodied dealing with a disabled person who is female. The cost benefit analysis for this is lopsided.
It's one of those situations where if you have a single argument which spites this woman, then your azz is going straight to the penitentiary. There is no story that will sway a juror or a judge no matter how innocent you are