I just don't get how a guy can be too nice. That's all I ever dealt with.
a$$holes make me wanna punch em. Ain't nobody impressed by ignorance.
But a lot of these chicks equate drama with intense love. I was just talking about this the other day when I mentioned that some dudes like being treated like shyt. Welp some women are the same. They think only the difficult parts of life are real.
But these types are also master manipulators. So they know how to finesse some unwitting dude.
Guys can be too nice. Usually, it's because they feel like if they are nice enough they can get something in return. So they give and give in hopes that you feel love for them.I just don't get how a guy can be too nice. That's all I ever dealt with.
a$$holes make me wanna punch em. Ain't nobody impressed by ignorance.
But a lot of these chicks equate drama with intense love. I was just talking about this the other day when I mentioned that some dudes like being treated like shyt. Welp some women are the same. They think only the difficult parts of life are real.
But these types are also master manipulators. So they know how to finesse some unwitting dude.
I don't really like hearing this kind of loaded language from an non black breh tbhHer future is all set with multiple kids out of wed lock...and lots of drama.
@Reinscarf was right.
These chics are probably fatherless

Women are nuts, breh.I never heard a man complain about a woman being too nice. This shyt makes no sense to me.



The guy you mentioned doesn't seem too nice. He sounds submissive, which is a different thing.Guys can be too nice. Usually, it's because they feel like if they are nice enough they can get something in return. So they give and give in hopes that you feel love for them.
I went on a couple dates with a dude like that. First date, I asked him what does he like to do, what was he passionate about? He answered that he doesn't know because he normally does whatever everyone else wants to do. A lot of times, the guys like that give off a desperate, "love me" vibe. Like you feel pressured to feel attraction that's not there.
Judging from the texts the guy seems like a genuine nice guy. He's showing love and appreciation and Kelly doesn't know how to recieve it. Probably because she either feels like she doesn't deserve it or in the past that niceness always came with a catch, like she probably had to work in order to get it, or she was expected to do something in return.
Im submissive. Passive is a better term for him. He is both but you can be submissive/passive without being too nice. I hung out with him several times. He seems the type who would let someone take advantage of him. He was a people pleaserThe guy you mentioned doesn't seem too nice. He sounds submissive, which is a different thing.
I don't even know if the girls being referenced in the text messages are black thoughI don't really like hearing this kind of loaded language from an non black breh tbh![]()


You sound like a paradox.Im submissive. Passive is a better term for him. He is both but you can be submissive/passive without being too nice. I hung out with him several times. He seems the type who would let someone take advantage of him. He was a people pleaser
I mentioned him not knowing about what he likes because that was a red flag. It said to me that he doesn't know himself. He spends his time living for others. He never took the time to figure out what he wants and likes. If you don't know know yourself at least a lil, how can I get to know you? He wasn't ready for a relationship with me. I need someone who is secure in themself because I'm a very independent, introverted lover. I need my alone time, I like going out and not always being up under someone.