Which 1 of u Coli nice guys is this thot textin about?

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I just don't get how a guy can be too nice. That's all I ever dealt with.

a$$holes make me wanna punch em. Ain't nobody impressed by ignorance.

But a lot of these chicks equate drama with intense love. I was just talking about this the other day when I mentioned that some dudes like being treated like shyt. Welp some women are the same. They think only the difficult parts of life are real.

But these types are also master manipulators. So they know how to finesse some unwitting dude.
 

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I just don't get how a guy can be too nice. That's all I ever dealt with.

a$$holes make me wanna punch em. Ain't nobody impressed by ignorance.

But a lot of these chicks equate drama with intense love. I was just talking about this the other day when I mentioned that some dudes like being treated like shyt. Welp some women are the same. They think only the difficult parts of life are real.

But these types are also master manipulators. So they know how to finesse some unwitting dude.
Guys can be too nice. Usually, it's because they feel like if they are nice enough they can get something in return. So they give and give in hopes that you feel love for them.

I went on a couple dates with a dude like that. First date, I asked him what does he like to do, what was he passionate about? He answered that he doesn't know because he normally does whatever everyone else wants to do. A lot of times, the guys like that give off a desperate, "love me" vibe. Like you feel pressured to feel attraction that's not there.

Judging from the texts the guy seems like a genuine nice guy. He's showing love and appreciation and Kelly doesn't know how to recieve it. Probably because she either feels like she doesn't deserve it or in the past that niceness always came with a catch, like she probably had to work in order to get it, or she was expected to do something in return.
 

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She sounds like she needs a nikka to beat her ass to feel love:francis:

He start fukking off on her or some shyt and she will be hearing wedding bells:wow:

If the truth is medicine he need a double dose word to Trip..
 

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Guys can be too nice. Usually, it's because they feel like if they are nice enough they can get something in return. So they give and give in hopes that you feel love for them.

I went on a couple dates with a dude like that. First date, I asked him what does he like to do, what was he passionate about? He answered that he doesn't know because he normally does whatever everyone else wants to do. A lot of times, the guys like that give off a desperate, "love me" vibe. Like you feel pressured to feel attraction that's not there.

Judging from the texts the guy seems like a genuine nice guy. He's showing love and appreciation and Kelly doesn't know how to recieve it. Probably because she either feels like she doesn't deserve it or in the past that niceness always came with a catch, like she probably had to work in order to get it, or she was expected to do something in return.
The guy you mentioned doesn't seem too nice. He sounds submissive, which is a different thing.
 

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The guy you mentioned doesn't seem too nice. He sounds submissive, which is a different thing.
Im submissive. Passive is a better term for him. He is both but you can be submissive/passive without being too nice. I hung out with him several times. He seems the type who would let someone take advantage of him. He was a people pleaser

I mentioned him not knowing about what he likes because that was a red flag. It said to me that he doesn't know himself. He spends his time living for others. He never took the time to figure out what he wants and likes. If you don't know know yourself at least a lil, how can I get to know you? He wasn't ready for a relationship with me. I need someone who is secure in themself because I'm a very independent, introverted lover. I need my alone time, I like going out and not always being up under someone.
 

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I don't really like hearing this kind of loaded language from an non black breh tbh :francis:
I don't even know if the girls being referenced in the text messages are black though
:dahell:

I would say this shyt about any chic trying to curve a guy who is good to her.
 

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Lots of women prefer to be disrespected as opposed to treated well:manny:
It is what is, works for me
 

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Im submissive. Passive is a better term for him. He is both but you can be submissive/passive without being too nice. I hung out with him several times. He seems the type who would let someone take advantage of him. He was a people pleaser

I mentioned him not knowing about what he likes because that was a red flag. It said to me that he doesn't know himself. He spends his time living for others. He never took the time to figure out what he wants and likes. If you don't know know yourself at least a lil, how can I get to know you? He wasn't ready for a relationship with me. I need someone who is secure in themself because I'm a very independent, introverted lover. I need my alone time, I like going out and not always being up under someone.
You sound like a paradox.
 
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