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Point me to where I said black men don't trash black women. You're the who acts like the opposite don't exist. Your omission of the OP in this thread shows that.

And black men don't need your defence. Who the fukk are you supposed to be ? :dead:

You basically said I'm upset over the preferences of black men rather than them actually attacking black women.

& The comment in the OP is nothing compared to the hateful things said on social media about black women by black men.

& You're absolutely correct that they don't need mines because black women as a collective defend them all day every day. :yeshrug:



Where did I said that everything is ok? Show me that.

Again you are projecting a lot onto me.

Could you listen to my words instead of trying to put some in my mouth?

You're saying it's okay by telling me all black men are like that.Is that the solution? "Well all black men are not like that."
 

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I don't think you understand the patheticness in of what I just said.Black women are thankful & grateful when Black men don't disrespect, demean, & berate them.They are thankful for sh*t that by DEFAULT shouldn't be happening.& The fact that, that statement flew right over your head makes me realize you simply don't get it.

I'm tired of convincing.At some point, you call the sh*t a lost cause.There are some black women who want conciliation with Black men and yearn for black men to understand their position as black women & I am not one of them any longer.

Then stop typing here
 

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You're saying it's okay by telling me all black men are like that.Is that the solution? "Well all black men are not like that."
For us to get to a solution I need you to stop acting like all black men hate black women.

Dont generalize black men and group men like me with black men who hate black women. You dont see me generalizing black women now do you?

The solution is black men and black women uniting and addressing the black women hate that is going on in our community.
 

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For us to get to a solution I need you to stop acting like all black men hate black women. Dont generalize black men and group men like me with black men who hate black women.

The solution is black men and black women uniting and addressing the black women hate that is going on in our community.

Please tag me when that happens (which will be never). :pachaha:
 

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Please tag me when that happens (which will be never). :pachaha:
I will.

Here is something for now:


Just try not to act like all black men are a monolith. You are making it harder for us to make moves that will help black women when you group us with black men who hate black women.

Whoever you want to date is your choice cuz it sounds like you dont wanna date black men. Just dont get in the way of the black community rising.
 
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@WHIPPEDCream I think you need to give a nice black man a chance...and no , I don't mean a 6'6, 6 figure corporate guy by day, and run the block at night type of black guy...I mean just a regular respectful black man, that's productive, goal orientated, family orientated....he may not make the most $ or have the most "swag" but hes a good person that will take care of you and bust his ass for his kids

why not just give the guy I just described a shot? maybe sometimes the grass is greener, like yin and yang.....u might lose something on the superficial side but in the long term you'll gain something of substance

and Im sure your attitude about this will change, but if your dealing dusty dudes, reading online comments(which nobody should take seriously) or around dusty ppl, itll make u think everybody is like this, when they're not....I use to be a victim of this
 

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I will.

Here is something for now:


Just try not to act like all black men are a monolith. You are making it harder for us to make moves that will help black women when you group us with black men who hate black women.

Whoever you want to date is your choice. Just dont get in the way of the black community rising.


I already know of him, I am subscribed to him on youtube. He calls Black men out on their BS.




He been bae.:pachaha:

& My goal is not to slight black men, my goal is for the advancement of black women.
 

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@WHIPPEDCream I think you need to give a nice black man a chance...and no , I don't mean a 6'6, 6 figure corporate guy by day, and run the block at night type of black guy...I mean just a regular respectful black man, that's productive, goal orientated, family orientated....he may not make the most $ or have the most "swag" but hes a good person that will take care of you and bust his ass for his kids

why not just give the guy I just described a shot? maybe sometimes the grass is greener, like yin and yang.....u might lose something on the superficial side but in the long term you'll gain something of substance

and Im sure your attitude about this will change, but if your dealing dusty dudes, reading online comments(which nobody should take seriously) or around dusty ppl, itll make u think everybody is like this, when they're not....I use to be a victim of this

& Of course some where in the mix I'm being told to lower my standards.:mjlol:Why are black women constantly being told to lower their standards? People really act like Black women don't deserve sh*t.

& I am currently not dating so idk why you told me this but I've observed this same "advice," all over.
 
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I already know of him, I am subscribed to him on youtube. He calls Black men out on their BS.



He been bae.:pachaha:

& My goal is not to slight black men, my goal is for the advancement of black women.

Thats a video full of many different black men and not just him. Black men are not a monolith.

Black women cant advance without black men nor visa versa. You are gonna have to accept that fact eventually.
 

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Thats a video full of many different black men and not just him.

Black women cant advance without black men nor visa versa. You are gonna have to accept that fact eventually.

What are you trying to prove? I don't need reassurance that "good," black men exist.& I also don't believe that the only possible way that black women can do "better," is if black men do "better."
 
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