While y’all were too busy arguing about going 50/50, my man worked 12 hours a day so I could quit my job and be a stay at home mom

NatiboyB

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she figured it out us men have no issue working hard to care for an appreciative woman and I mean literally paying all of the bills if we can. Honestly, we are damn near designed to do it.
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
If it works for them:manny:
Unfortunately nikkas learn too late in the game about the woman their with:francis:
If she’s not asking what you not only want out of life
If she’s not asking why you are seeking a monogamous relationship
Or asking your hopes and dreams for said relationship
And only worried about her emotions, feelings and growth
My boy you with a leech
Not only a financial leech but an emotional one
And if you don’t capitulate to all her cravings
If she doesn’t respect your boundaries
Ideals
Guidance
Voice
You will be like them old nikkas that walk around with walkers
Broken emotionally and physically
 

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This is the realest shyt in here....I've seen this story play out with people I know at least 5 times off the top of my head...

nikkas working 70-80 hours a week and then find out their girl is cheating on them because they never spend time together anymore....:francis:
There's a plant in my city, ADM. All the hourly employees work mandatory 12 hrs shifts and they STILL force you to work overtime. That don't leave much for quality time.
 

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All of her life? Where did you get that from? They probably haven't been together more than 4 years.

Do you know how much apartments cost? He paid out the rest of her lease. Even if her rent was 1500 for 11 months that's only 16,500 dollars. You acting like she said he BOUGHT her a house in another state. He didn't "spend" 100k on a car, he signed on the line and is paying for. Even to the tune of 800 a month with insurance, the tesla charging package and all of that...plus their house payment. Let's say hes paying 2500 a month for their house. 800 on the Tesla and 1500 for her old ass apartment. That's only 4800 on month. Let's not even say hes making double that a month let's say hes only making 7200 a month. *12 months in a year....thats only 86,400 a year...

That's not far fetched at all. Especially working 12hr shifts. There's too many easy ways to break that down. He makes 25 and hr. Works 7 days a week. That's 48000. Time and a half for 4 hours, everyday he works thats 36,000 annual budget $84,000. These are just rough figures off the top of the dome. Y'all acting like she's saying he's some type of top baller or millionaire.

Come on y'all.
This math sounds like Foxy verse on Affirmative Action :dwillhuh:
 

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I watched my grandma's husband buy into this rhetoric his entire adult life. The man wanted for nothing besides working and being a servant to my grandma. Always thinking of her and taking care of her needs while she refused to work or did odd jobs of questionable integrity. Well i finally got the call that he's gravely ill and lo and behold, grandma is making excuses for why she cant help him with this and can't be there for his mental health.

I had to walk into their home on several occasions and hear this man crying out in pain and she's just sitting there asking if I can pick him up, put him in his wheelchair and do all the things she's supposed to do until he passes. The man died serving her. She called me crying on the day he died and that was the only time I saw her worried about her future. Sometimes the world sends you messages and you best take heed. I'll never be out here scrounging and serving a woman while she sits on her ass. Fukk outta here.

Women like that use men and think that all men are expendable. Leeches of that variety need to be publicly humiliated.
 

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Lol my gf keeps talking about being a stay at home mom n work being optional :francis:. fukk that. My goal is to retire early. A lot of women are slaves to materialism.

I'd rather be single. Then have to work my ass off just to keep a woman home n happy.

Fax. I confiscate my woman's check every 2 weeks. She be talking that "I wanna follow my dreams" talk too...

She better follow that shyt after work.
 

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This woman has no discernible business outside of selling "business" courses and "free credit repair". She is selling a certain lifestyle to get ppl to buy her shytty classes and the guy is likely in on it.
 
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