While you simping someone is blowing her back out for free.
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Oldschooler
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A lot of young brehs don't understand this thinking as the family structure has broken down compared to 50 years ago. When you have been around the way a couple of times and the game has chewed and spitted you out you no longer date for sex. I look for a woman that will make me a better men and improve my life quality at that point.
BmoreGorilla
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Yup and I had been there and done that. Between the ages of 16-24 I dogged out so many chicks it was ridiculous. But by the time I hit my mid 30s I had no desire for that anymore. The woman i am with now I met not too long after the separated. She had been thru a divorce and knew what I was going thru. We took shyt slow and developed a real friendship. She liked the fact that I was honest with her. She prolly knew I was fukking some other chicks but she knew I needed get it out my system. We talked a lot and we’d see each other when she wanted. I had to explore my options. I never pursued anything and as a result they pursued me
Trust & commitment issues are a Coli staple:
Guys afraid to invest time and money into relationships for fear that she's fukking someone else if she's not fukking them.
Guys afraid to invest emotionally into marriage for fear of divorce and alimony.
Any talk of having children is more associated with fear of child support than a fear of being an adequate parent
...but it's probably more indicative of being a person of our age demo in this generation. Insecurity is at an all-time high and people fear breaking down from being vulnerable. Being online as often as most posters (shyt...most PEOPLE, male or female), it's easy to fool yourself into believing that the worst of the worst is the norm and having that mentality probably creates a self-fulfilling prophecy for the bullshyt.
Guys afraid to invest time and money into relationships for fear that she's fukking someone else if she's not fukking them.
Guys afraid to invest emotionally into marriage for fear of divorce and alimony.
Any talk of having children is more associated with fear of child support than a fear of being an adequate parent
...but it's probably more indicative of being a person of our age demo in this generation. Insecurity is at an all-time high and people fear breaking down from being vulnerable. Being online as often as most posters (shyt...most PEOPLE, male or female), it's easy to fool yourself into believing that the worst of the worst is the norm and having that mentality probably creates a self-fulfilling prophecy for the bullshyt.
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EA
A Pound & A Prayer
It’s happened to me before. A girl I used to talk to got drunk once and started complaining to me that I’m being “mean” because I won’t date her meanwhile she was letting some guy with no money/job/prospects hit it. They ended up dating for a year and she wanted me to save her when it got abusive. Had to stop talking to her because I don’t simp for women that don’t deserve me 
BmoreGorilla
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A lot of nikkas look at things all wrong. They think “she just got finished being run thru by thugs and now she wants lame me”. It could simply be that she has been exploring her options and decided that you are the one she wants. When you are just dating a woman you may be dating other people and she may be as well. It’s like nikkas expect commitment from them even if both parties aren’t committed.
You dodged a bullet my manIt’s happened to me before. A girl I used to talk to got drunk once and started complaining to me that I’m being “mean” because I won’t date her meanwhile she was letting some guy with no money/job/prospects hit it. They ended up dating for a year and she wanted me to save her when it got abusive. Had to stop talking to her because I don’t simp for women that don’t deserve me
EA
A Pound & A Prayer
It’s happened to me before. A girl I used to talk to got drunk once and started complaining to me that I’m being “mean” because I won’t date her meanwhile she was letting some guy with no money/job/prospects hit it. They ended up dating for a year and she wanted me to save her when it got abusive. Had to stop talking to her because I don’t simp for women that don’t deserve me
Bigblackted4
Superstar
Been on both sides, I remember going out to eat with a girl then the next week seeing a dude drop her off at 3 am. (College) I also know of many chicks that I would just call to hit and they’d cook for me while dudes was going on vacation, they at home boyfriend and other shyt.
It's true in a lot of cases
I have women i simp and aint getting nowhere with that i know are fukking some other dude while they just use me as entertainment on fun dates. At the same time i have women that i fukk on a regular basis cumming all up in them and all over their faces that some other brehs out there are worshiping and simping that same woman like she's a goddess.
It's even funnier when these brehs text them while they're with me and and she'll let me see the text messages and laugh at them as she tells me the back stories.
I often feel bad for these brehs because i know how the chick truly feels about them. But at the same time i' have been and still am in that breh's same position with some other women.Life is cruel, brehs.
Just live life and dont worry about mofos seeing you as a simp. We're all simps to somebody. Just as every woman who pretends to be strong and proud is a fool to some breh out there.
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Or the guy blowing her back out is fulfills her sexual gratification while she sees 'the simp' as a long term partner........it happens 
You call it insecurity and others will call it protecting yourself.
Shang Tsung
All Star
I always say it as saying dont invest your time in someone who wont do the same for you
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
Yep.
She will have given her best to randoms but that husbandhe catching hell and cant get a sandwich.
Dominican shorty right here I used to get food, backrubs and p*ssy but not her husband
He's gotta secretly be a cuck or something. The hell he with her if he can't get a sandwich? You know how pissed off I'd be coming home to no food. Her ass
