PositiveNah she needs to stay with this guy. She needs some positive experiences with black men to change her perspective.

...This is what she's working with and she's having problems in the dating world? 

Or you know, she's lying.He was fukkin her...

I agree with his messiness for sure.He knew very well this was going to be a recipe for disaster.To invite me (a girl he is trying to date) back home to the same place he told a female "friend," that he has had sex with from time to time & supports financially that she could stay until she is back on her feet.
.He really thought we were all going to eat, drink, laugh and have a good time? He really thought that this was going to be successful?
Yeah no. Either he likes attention or he's really oblivious and both the former and the latter can get u killed.
But don't let this color ur experiences with all blk men either b/c other races of dudes can be just as shady and messy as well
Lol!
Who lying?Or you know, she's lying.![]()
Positive
This nikka is a playa obviously and wants his cake and eat it too
@WHIPPEDCream run girl!
Ive been in your same exact situation! i had an ex that had a crazy baby mama that stayed with him and it was a horrible experience (still dealing with it today)
His race has nothing to do with itHe's not a player. If he was a player he would have kicked her to the curve after getting no sex after the 2nd date. This is a good guy, he's just inexperienced.
I refuse to assume the worse of another young black man off of one incident. That's not something i'm going do.



His race has nothing to do with it
Ive seen white and latin men pull the same exact shyt on women
The signs are there
He originally told an innocent sounding lie to paint himself as a kind caring guy looking out for a female in distress
He knew about the tension and still tried to force the situation.
He was fukking this girl...thats the only time women react violently is when a man is trying to play them. which he did.
He prolly fukked that bytch the same night @WHIPPEDCream had the netflix and chill date with him
While she was sleep, he snuck into ole girl bed
I know a playa when i see one![]()
I am happily single and not bitter at allIt's funny how women can always see the signs in OTHER women's relationships, but can never see it in their own.
This is one incident. Give the guy a chance. Damn smh.
I am happily single and not bitter at all
Unlike u
U see the negative in women 24/7 but u try to act as if playas dont exist in men.
fukk outta here

Im a man hater yet this is coming fom a 5'1 frail body faq that constantly shyts on women because of his poor choices in womenSure you are bytch
Take your man hating ass somewhere. You can't get a man, and want @WHIPPEDCream to be miserable like you. This is a good guy. She should continue dating him.

I am happily single and not bitter at all
Unlike u
U see the negative in women 24/7 but u try to act as if playas dont exist in men.
fukk outta here