You seem to be associating not giving into hate with being docile, with letting white people off the hook, with not being angry, with not taking the necessary movements to advance the place of black Americans in society when simply all it is not spreading what you're arguing against under the impression that you're going to be able to improve your standing while doing so.
Because you're not.
And on that last point.
It's not that I couldn't change the views of white people in society, and the same for being here.
But I can do my best to get people to see my point of view which is always my goal.
I don't expect white American's to share my views just like I wouldn't expect a women to share my views on gender dynamics even if we have similar ones.
People see society through the eyes that they are given and if I was white I'd be influenced by a different set of sources than a black person, go through different experiences than a black person, and have different ideological lanes to go down in relation to other groups just Luke every race and every group has.
So no I won't ever "expect" that.
But despite not expecting that there are millions of white Americans who Ieven if they don't share the same views as me verbatim which is essentially impossible I see/know about arguing against racists, fighting for the rights of black Americans, or who are learning about a side of society they never knew about or were complacent towards.
And unless I turn into a go back to Africa kind of guy I plan to live in the US for the rest of my life which means it's important to find common ground across all racial groups to work towards progress.
So yes the stress of seeing racist comments day after day did get to me and I came to thecoli to talk about Breaking Bad and black issues, but I still what I did then on other communities and It's worth while.
I've already defined hate where it concerns Blacks, if you cannot read what I wrote multiple times, that is your problem. I am not going to redress all of my other posts just to say the same thing.
I can improve my standing among my own people. I can make money anywhere because I am not an idiot. So your point on not being able to "hate" (which you have yet to understand) and improve my standing in the world is the dumbest thing I've read on here outside of the guy that said we can breed racism out of existence.
Also, other groups are progressing whereas Blacks are regressing, so what in the blue hell are you talking about? We aren't regressing because we hate. It is quite the opposite. We are regressing because we love being around and spending money in every other races businesses, and hate being around other Blacks. That is why we are regressing and will continue to regress.
You aren't going to progress the Black group by finding "common ground" (
you need to define your terms instead of being vague as I may be incorrectly using this term in regards to what you meant) with other groups. All you can do is work with other groups to an extent with the goal of improving your standing in the world and your group's standing. Haven't you learned anything from society, from history, from everyday experience? Stop living in a bubble. That is why no-one listens to you. They read your posts and their eyes glaze over with, "this guy is an idiot"... All you'd end up doing is disenfranchising Blacks even more with your white trust-fund liberal logic (I've been around plenty in this lifetime, and you sound just like them).
To your last points again, it seems I was correct. You cannot deal with the truth of white people. You run when things get rough for your own weak sensibilities to handle. You aren't progressing with such a weak mindset and demeanor. You're the softest guy ever. Some internet trolls caused you to run away, then when on a site that discusses Black issues, you try to preach to Black folk as if you are enlightened. You're being a fool, Pifferry.