White coworker said nikka

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You can still redeem yourself. Tell her you overheard her saying 'nikka' and that there's no need to repeat what teenagers said. Tell her that she is exacerbating the problem by creating a situation that could be taken entirely out of context if one of the kids overheard her saying it. Also note that she seemed really comfortable repeating the word, and that is concerning to you (she will get incredibly defensive at this)
Be really condescending when you do this.
It's funny cause she sorta comes off condescending but my shift is over for today but I think I'll save the heat for next time if there is one. I know you said theres still time but i dont wanna lose my job or have some fukk shyt even tho I can sue or whatever
 

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Yea I get this a lot. I think these fakkit ass young cacs think I'm sweet or "cool/down" cuz I'm lightskin and every now n then I get some fakkit ass cac tryin to drop that shyt

Tellem "Dont say that shyt around me period. Not tryin to hear it and idc who you grew up around"
I dont think they even see the light skin as a pass, these kids just dgaf
 

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I dont think they even see the light skin as a pass, these kids just dgaf
Mane it has to be that...cuz they tha types who wouldn't dare say that shyt in front of tha right one. I'm admittedly scrawny af. Its like they think "hey this one is just light enough i can say it around! :krs:" Matter fact? Bro thats EXACTLY how they ve thinking.

Then they always...ALWAYS come with the "B-b-b-ut my friend is bl" no he aint. Aint no Black dude on earth gon let a white dude call him nikka like that... not even your biggest uncle tom.
 

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Mane it has to be that...cuz they tha types who wouldn't dare say that shyt in front of tha right one. I'm admittedly scrawny af. Its like they think "hey this one is just light enough i can say it around! :krs:" Matter fact? Bro thats EXACTLY how they ve thinking.

Then they always...ALWAYS come with the "B-b-b-ut my friend is bl" no he aint. Aint no Black dude on earth gon let a white dude call him nikka like that... not even your biggest uncle tom.
Bro I'm dark skin and work with two other dark skin dudes and we hear it all the time. We had a client who was a white kid who said he felt black, acts black, is black on the inside etc. and would use the N word. One time my coworker had to tell him hes not a nikka :russ: he shut quiet cause that was his favorite staff member and he looked up to homie and shyt but that kid had issues. Idk if it's a east coast thing but all the white kids at this home be using nikka with black kids and black people around. I'm def bout to be on top of that shyt times ten. I been thinking about bringing them Talib kwelis poem/article called nikka please (the white people at my job prob wont allow it even tho I heard her ass saying it) to give them some insight on the word cause the shyt be annoying
 

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You possess sufficient willpower to write about your ordeal on the coli, but lack the courage to confront the situation in real life. What does that say about you as a person?




:ohhh: Op is built like shyt
 

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Yeah I ain't tryna be jobless at this time tbh, if there is a next time I'm on her ass. But lowkey she went to my manager complaining about me (even tho I do my job great) what if I went to HR then they give that general message to everyone like they usually do. Tbh that might be some salty behavior but I'm ready to be over it

You kidding me breh? you got a white woman that said nikka at work...you might as well be holding a mf golden goose egg :wow:
 

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Bro I'm dark skin and work with two other dark skin dudes and we hear it all the time. We had a client who was a white kid who said he felt black, acts black, is black on the inside etc. and would use the N word. One time my coworker had to tell him hes not a nikka :russ: he shut quiet cause that was his favorite staff member and he looked up to homie and shyt but that kid had issues. Idk if it's a east coast thing but all the white kids at this home be using nikka with black kids and black people around. I'm def bout to be on top of that shyt times ten. I been thinking about bringing them Talib kwelis poem/article called nikka please (the white people at my job prob wont allow it even tho I heard her ass saying it) to give them some insight on the word cause the shyt be annoying
Smfh...

Lil quick story: this goofy ass white bytch, for whatever reason, decided to walk her and her rabbit ass mind up to me and ask "do you care of i or other white people say nikka?" (Which is why I said tha shyt in my original post. I just be like...:mindblown: wtf...)

I asked her why she felt tha need to say it.
Looked at me like she was retarded n told her foh, exactly.

I love callin em out like that...cuz they expect you to be mad af in an outward manner but when you hit em wit a kel tech wit tha silencer...they get that ether feeling.
 

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So i work at a group home for teens where they swear all day, say nikka, inappropriate language and conversations etc.

Our job is to tell them to stop, correct them and shyt. Now this admin lady is white and was in the staff office talking to another white coworker talking about one of the kids being upset about something and was like "he got upset and said fukk you, nikka this nikka that":ohhh:now I'm far but heard this and I didnt run over and ask her to repeat herself or anything or tell her I'm uncomfortable but am I tripping for caring this much and inb4 yall kill me for not speaking up:russ:
you ran to a message board to give us the gist of the situation....

its pointless now...
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you ran to a message board to give us the gist of the situation....

its pointless now...
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Lol I didnt run. It was a while after plus i was bored and see race threads in the locker room often so I'd figure I'd see what the coli would say:yeshrug:
 

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I’ve never had a white person use that word in front of me.

Why didn’t you say anything? Why were you scared?
 
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