If you want to skip all of this a quick answer is that I don't like the people here and don't want to talk with people I don't like on issues that we may agree on because I feel as if I'm legitimizing the other stuff I may not think is moral.
I live alone with my great grandmother.
I'm 18 but not in college yet and when I do it will be community college.
But okay I gave proof I really don't care any more.
My posts are simple.
I've never opposed solely dating within your own race and I'm totally okay with that but I have criticized the bedwench bullshyt and the hypocrisy from the men on this subforum with interracial relationships.
I've never criticized group economics or disrupted a discussion on it.
I've never cried reverse racism in the sense that you'll see white people do when confronted with facts on the current state of black America/ bleach history but have cried racism when people on here made up fake science to extert a biological supremacy over whites (and honestly I used to believe the power definition until I came here).
I've never used a respectability politics argument and have never supported Darren Wilson or whatever other policeman in a murder/brutality case and know all the facts on the biases in the justice system and the reasons why lower income black communities are the way they are today and I know the problems witch the school systems and the history classes.
I've never claimed that the gay struggle is the same as the black struggle.
I've never bashed a black woman or a black man for something that wasn't of the contents of their own character.
And I've never done whatever other thing people on here want to put on me.
I have a simple belief system and that's that people are people so I judged them all the same and never get so locked into one viewpoint that I can't put myself into someone else's shoes to see how they've came to whatever conclusion they have in their beliefs even if they're wrong and that I can't look at the world as objectively as possible.
Meaning that I don't like hypocrites.
I don't like it when people one here act like black people are special.
Now that doesn't mean I'm anti-black pride no it's nothing like that.
It's when people on here can say that they wish Don Lemon was born in Uganda so he could have gotten stoned to death for being gay or something of that sorts by proxy admit that there's deplorable violence towards gays in Africa (and other places but that's what's relevant to this site) and then post a gif or something about eating chicken or other praises of the black man's humanity when you just said some disgusting shyt but because you can't associate the two won't realize that you're a bigoted fukk and then still post and be accepted.
I don't like it when people will post about the history of slavery in America and act like it's the only slave trade that ever existed. Not in the common "but other places had slaves to" deflection you'll see white people use but in the you're doing that so you can dehumanize whites in a way to be this cartoonish enemy because it's easier to say horrible things like that if you dehumanize them even if it means ignoring the Shang, Qin, and whatever other dynasties in China that practiced the slave trade and the escapades of the Mongols among other things in Asia such as the rape of Nanking and other terrible or horrendously inhumane actions commuted by Africans in Africa (yes in a situation that was brought up in by European colonialism but if you're willing to claim social conditioning when talking about that then you should when mentioning Europe) and in the middle east.
I don't like the single mom or black women bashing or the criticism of young black people like me (even though you don't believe me) for not fitting into thecolis hyper masculine view of what it means to be a man.
I don't like it when an argument against the white devil mentality on here can be deflected as c00ning with an "all white people ain't bad" post in return giving it a negative connotation that wasn't there or a "I don't want bread crumbs" or a "something something liberal" or a "they're talking behind your back or don't really care" even if there's evidence to the contrary when all I'm trying to do is not proclaim that I desire white acceptance but just something I've observed to be true.
Or when thecoli can't draw parallels between things without seeing it is diminishing the cause they're arguing for when really it's just using a tool to understand something better so if I mentioned that while not to excuse but to help explain these actions due to lower iq's, a lack of education, ignorance, manipulation from the rich, and brainwashing from birth coupled with pressure from everyone around you and poverty and tribalism racism was able to foster in the United States wouldn't it make sense for it to be solely related to society and not a biological defect when you can see this same process happening in different ways with gang violence in America/violence in Africa so why chop it up to biology in one case and society in the other?
When the south was defeated in the war why chop up the post reconstruction violence to devil genes when the answer is right in front of you with the stuff I described above coupled with the utter destruction in the south, the feeling of having your national identity stripped from you, the looming presence of the north in your home.
Now this isn't excusing it's explaining using history, obviously in the end it comes down to your choice as an individual it's just being born into different situations can make that choice harder which is not an excuse considering all the WHITE abolitionists or the WHITE anti slavery Quakers or the European countries that outlawed slavery way before the US did or the 1,000 and something WHITE people that died trying to stop black people from being lynched and what not.
It's like take the conditioning that Yummy Sandifers went through, and multiply that on the scale of an entire country.
(That's my answer to you
@mrken12 since you kept asking me about this)
I don't like it when people in here think it's okay to go badmouth Asian and Hispanic people and use slurs or post generalizations about Indians or whatever other race and not see the irony.
This is going on way too long though so I'll cut it short.
I believe it's possible to encourage pride in your heritage without shytting on someone else's and to help people see the beauty of their skin without rejoicing off of skin cancer.
I believe it's possible to talk about exclusivity with the black community (basically for us by us since think of how else to describe it) without so much negativity and insults being flung around.
I believe it's possible to talk about white privilege without telling someone every thing in your life was handed to you and that this is all your fault (which it isn't they've just inherited the baggage and can choose what to do with it )
I believe it's possible to instil knowledge in your children like my grandma did with me on black history without the intention of teaching hatred.
I believe it's possible to discuss IR's without calling people outdated slurs like bedwench.
I don't believe hypocrisy is appropriate.
I believe it's possible to vent without sacrificing your rationality.
I'm anti hypocrisy.
I didn't join this site like this.
It was because I was a looking for discussions on breaking bad and found this site and saw there were a lot of black people so I looked for discussions in black people and atheism (I'm a black atheist) and it was nice seeing a similar perspective so I joined and I would post about black issues nothing like I am today and I even made a thread posting history on the Greensboro sit in newspapers but then my perspective on for changed, I stopped saying cac because in my mid it's an insult and I don't do race related insults but that's miniscule and slowly turned into what I am today on here.
I believe it's possible to be strong and assertive without the stuff you see on here.
Maybe I'm too optimistic.
Then I'm as pathetic as them.
I don't know if you remember this but when I first joined I used to have civil discussions with you and Matt504 on race in America until I started to see what I consider to be the ugly side of tlr.
The picture is real.
I have more pictures of myself saved with no timestamp if you want them (but you'll just say I saved a friend's pictures).
I've been called a ****** while I walked down the street.
I've been a token.
I've been the black kid who didn't stop the race related jokes and had them spiral too far.
I've had friends who I later found out to be racist (I was apparently a black person not a ******).
I've felt the frustration of many of the things you all speak of.
I've witnessed the problems talked about on here.
The thing is I process it differently.
