Who deals with breakups better? Men or women?

[DarlingNikki]

we're going in circles so I'm just going to copy and paste my previous as to save me time, Im watching big brother UK, sorry.

but nobody is saying women can't be content with being single. that would be the second photo, not the last. read again.



the guy will play the booty call role for as long as possible while the woman will eventually get tired of it and seek something deeper.

men can be single for long periods of time (and be content with it) esp since some men don't have the luxury of getting a gf as easier as it is for women to find a relationship.





my bootycalls have stopped calling because either she found a dude she wanted to be with or she wanted something more and I said no. note that the guy will play the booty call role for as long as possible


ran thru doesn't mean multiple partners, it means she thought she found a sex partner but he never called again.


women are in more relationships then men, and women also take relationships a lot more serious than men too. and that's a good thing actually.

But you copying and pasting doesn't make sense.

If women are seeking relationships with men who love being bootycalls how are relationships being formed? Because men get tired of all the shyt they claim to love..

YOU'RE saying that women can't be content being single, by saying they'll get tired of it and seek a relationship. You can't make that assumption because of the women you have sex with.

I see more men crying about being single on social networking than women. Men hopping in and out of relationships. Men making more connections by starting families that they don't intend on being in.

men so emotionally unstable and insecure they don't want to build a home they want to jump from home to home like stray cats and then say that it's fun. And then condemn women if they have the same mentality, or make up a world where it's impossible for them to.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

If women are seeking relationships with men who love being bootycalls how are relationships being formed? Because men get tired of all the shyt they claim to love..

I don't even know what this means.

YOU'RE saying that women can't be content being single, by saying they'll get tired of it and seek a relationship. You can't make that assumption because of the women you have sex with.

I didn't say that. In fact I just said women can be content with it, however they will eventually get tired of the booty call role. have you not just one day called it quits and gotten into a relationship?

I see more men crying about being single on social networking than women. Men hopping in and out of relationships. Men making more connections by starting families that they don't intend on being in.

I think they intended on being in it, it just didn't work out that way. I don't know too many people proudly starting families they don't plan on being in.

men so emotionally unstable and insecure they don't want to build a home they want to jump from home to home like stray cats and then say that it's fun. And then condemn women if they have the same mentality, or make up a world where it's impossible for them to.

I didn't condemn anyone. women can sleep around, I love bootycalls. my issue with them is that women eventually end them for something deeper.

 

[Shadow King]

What Tommy Knocks is saying is pretty correct

 

[DarlingNikki]

I don't even know what this means.

You're the one who said that men want to be booty calls are you not?

I didn't say that. In fact I just said women can be content with it, however they will eventually get tired of the booty call role. have you not just one day called it quits and gotten into a relationship?

I've never been a booty call. And while that is what you said, you also said that men will do it as long as they possibly can, which is false.

I think they intended on being in it, it just didn't work out that way. I don't know too many people proudly starting families they don't plan on being in.

It doesn't have to be proudly, but its being done. How many single parent homes are there? But of course that's the womans fault by society's standards..

I didn't condemn anyone. women can sleep around, I love bootycalls. my issue with them is that women eventually end them for something deeper.

And here we are at the beginning, you're making assumptions about all women based on the ones you've slept with. Your opinion was that women are more emotionally minded, but not all women are the same.. Which is the whole point of this conversation. There are women who are completely happy with never being in a relationship. Arent there even cougars, who are older and unmarried who thrive on sexual relations with younger men? There are plenty of men who've ended their casual sex RELATIONSHIPS to be in a monogamous relationship with a woman, so this is two sided.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

I've never been a booty call. And while that is what you said, you also said that men will do it as long as they possibly can, which is false.


It doesn't have to be proudly, but its being done. How many single parent homes are there? But of course that's the womans fault by society's standards..


And here we are at the beginning, you're making assumptions about all women based on the ones you've slept with. Your opinion was that women are more emotionally minded, but not all women are the same.. Which is the whole point of this conversation. There are women who are completely happy with never being in a relationship. Arent there even cougars, who are older and unmarried who thrive on sexual relations with younger men? There are plenty of men who've ended their casual sex RELATIONSHIPS to be in a monogamous relationship with a woman, so this is two sided.[/B]

well Im obv generalizing, and society reason are why cougars are free sexually, typically its because they are divorced, or professionally occupied.

so you're sitting here trying to convince me women are not more emotional than men? so we're just going to pretend scientific studies and common knowledge don't back this. or perhaps thousands of years of human evolution where men have had wives while women have typically had 'a husband'

ok.

 

[Malta]

Women get over breakups easier, they typically have better support systems around them while men just have to bottle that shyt up and deal with the pain.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Women deal better I still miss most of my ex's.

stunting with a hotter chick eases the pain a bit though

 

[kevm3]

one of the advantages women have is that they got a whole network to help them deal with it... their homegirls to tell you the man wasn't worth it, to a whole roster of simps to comfort them and fresh cats ready to make their play. Only way you have that if you're a dude is if you're just this extra crispy cat with it.

 

[YEAHitsHER]

in general i think males deal with break-ups better...HOWEVER thats if he the one that broke it off...if not, then its another story..ain't nothing like a hurt nikka..something about a bruised ego don't sit well with them

 

[Auger]

There's no real formula to who handles break ups better,
One's emotional investment, expectation, and commitment in a relationship can help determine who will remained attached after the relationship dissolves.
Their own personal outlook on dating can also be a variable to, it's a case by case thing.