Who is right? The father or his wife?

[Thavoiceofthevoiceless]

Do you know how custody works? She’s the “primary” caregiver. Which means she’s the primary provider. And I’m pretty she fought to have that distinction so she can then go for child support.

That $500 a month eliminates multiple financial burdens. That’s groceries for a month. Utility bill, clothes.

Now if that was my kid, I would’ve got the shoes, but not because the mother asked. But he isn’t obligated to buy none of that. That’s what the child support order is for.

That’s his child so you could make the valid argument that it is to do so as a parent. There are some dudes out here who want no part of being the primary caregiver for their child even if it meant keeping all the child support to themselves as taking care of a kid cost way more than what they pay a month especially as they get older.

I can tell by your comments that you don’t have children, so I’d prefer to hear the perspective from one’s who do.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Breh needs to bounce. Doesn't sound like a happy home nor situation.