Yall keep saying this like men aren't doing the exact same thing and feeling the exact same way. The problem is we keep trying to draw lines in the sand on a small ass beach like we're literally living in the same country. You really think black men weren't socially conditioned the same way? Do you seriously believe we aren't guilt tripped?I think some men of all races are having a hard time adjusting to the modern era of women. BM just seem to be taking it the worst. BW were socially conditioned to just be happy to have a man in the past. That mindset is changing and BW are becoming more open to being single and/or dating out. The guilt tripping just isn't working anymore.