Who Pays on a First Date?

[CW_1991]

Went on a movie date with a chick last. I picked her up. She paid my way (probably because it was my birthday).


Another one paid the full bill for a dinner date once. That's not to say I haven't done the same for others.

 

[DarkHorse23]

What are the best places to take a woman on a first date? Not trying to get played. @Mirin4rmfar is right. Gotta be careful

 

[MarloStanTrill]

"come from a handsome white guy" pause

 

[ManBearPig]

First dates are normally 75$

 

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women bashing thread #12830214812

They should have never gave you virgins the internet.

/thread
Lmao! We need to make a perpetual bitter nikka thread.

 

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First off a date should be with a woman that you have a connection with and are looking to get to know them better in a scenario that is implicitly romantic. If you are taking chicks out on dates just to get laid then you're hustling backwards and might as well have used that money for a pro or something. On a real date you're allowed to want to pay for the woman as a sign of courtesy and means. It's not that you have to it's that you should want to as dates are a form of courtship where both parties must display their attractive qualities as a long term commitment. If you really like a woman and want to impress her then you would take control of the evening.

Close thread. On the real tho, my father told me that men should not invest copious amounts of money in a woman early on. That's prostitution. Which is exactly what u described.

LMAO! Instead he should go on little outings to get to know her. Then you can begin truly dating.

But see this goes back to what I was discussing with @Nelomaxwell in another thread. Courtship should work both ways. I've never had a guy even bring this up with me. So I feel sorry for any girl trying to date these internet dudes.

Men have always paid for me on dates. But I try to find ways to take care of them in return as well. I'm not the chick that will suck your dyck in exchange for a date because im not a prostitute. But any man that invests the time and effort in me will always receive the same time and effort in return.

I like doing little shyt and surprising people with stuff. The key is to date generous people.

 

[AkilinaArina]

Men create a concept of patriarchy which defines masculine and feminine roles then get mad that they have to adhere to it. Crazy talk.

 

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Also if she is insisting on the price of the meal on the 1st date, please leave her on the curb.
People should be gracious when shyt is free.

 

[SadimirPutin]

first date will never be anything too expensive anyway so it will never hurt my pockets

that said the person who asks the other person out should expect to pick the tab up

also if I ask I CHOSE THE ACTIVITIES AND THE VENUES......

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

First date you both pay.

 

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Absolutely.
I tell them not to lead anyone on, that they wouldn't like that shyt to be done to them, so don't do it to other people.

They shouldn't waste their own time nor the young man's time if they are not really interested.

I tell them to be honest and upfront, if someone asks or expresses interest.
Don't dangle that "friend" bullshyt.


I'm a firm believer in the idea that doing trife shyt to other people will guarantee you some trife shyt to come back to you in return.

Yep! That's the other part of this. Dudes usually know upfront that drawers ain't on the table for a date. If they still want to get to know me then cool. But people work too hard for their money. I'm not rich but I got my own money, I dunno need to use men for food.
I wonder about some of the chicks ya'll dealing with out here.

 

[calixprynce]

Yep! That's the other part of this. Dudes usually know upfront that drawers ain't on the table for a date. If they still want to get to know me then cool. But people work too hard for their money. I'm not rich but I got my own money, I dunno need to use men for food.
I wonder about some of the chicks ya'll dealing with out here.

seems like all you coli brehettes do .... I be peepin yall in the Salon talkin bizzness

 

[The Wolf Among You]

I tell my daughters the man should pay.
Always bring enough money to pay for your portion should it be necessary.
Always offer to pay the tip, do so if the gentleman agrees. Tip appropriately.
If the man hits you with some last minute 50/50 shyt that's fine, pay your portion and don't fukk with him any more.
Certainly ask and offer to take the man out occasionally. (Depends on income-maybe 1 out of 10 dates, maybe 1 out of 4)

And before any brehs get their panties in a bunch, remember I am a traditional wife.
My daughters are raised in a traditional household. Yes, I expect traditional dating

Consistency, I like it.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

What are the best places to take a woman on a first date? Not trying to get played. @Mirin4rmfar is right. Gotta be careful

Coffee unless you know she is really feeling you. Put it this way a woman isn't denying Drake or Reggie Bush a coffee date. As a matter just say let's meet up for coffee if she is cool, put a bit more effort. This weeds out the free meals, free entertainment women real quick and let's you know who really wants to get to know you as a person.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Coffee unless you know she is really feeling you. Put it this way a woman isn't denying Drake or Reggie Bush a coffee date. As a matter just say let's meet up for coffee if she is cool, put a bit more effort. This weeds out the free meals, free entertainment women real quick and let's you know who really wants to get to know you as a person.

What's an alternative for coffee or alcoholic drinks. I don't like coffee and I'm not really a drinker( in fact I don't like to all)