Who won this twitter argument? Is this fetishizing? *possible chatty patty thread*

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Anahita

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We appreciate yall too baby :o:

No one ever wants to see nikkas eat :wow:

Black women do what they want no problems. White men date out, no one cares.

Everytime someone prefers black men if has to be a fetish or a phase :wow:

nikkas can't eat without it being labeled self-hate :wow:

Can't it just be we some sexy motherfukkers? :wow:



No homo :dame:

:usure: I guess we're living in an alternate universe because in this one, the terms "bedwench" and "rugwench" would like to beg to differ.
 

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On thecoli. Not in real life. No one calls out BW for self hate, ever. I never see it. People call out bm who date out all of the time though.

Now, Black women do get called out for dating outside the race. Hell, just finding a non-black man attractive can get black women into trouble. Black women don't get called out for "self-hate" as often as they get called out for "sellling out". Meaning, a black woman is free to hate herself and her blackness as much as she wants as long as she keeps supporting the black community and black men. Big Mama can screw her kids up with "light is right" mentality and play favorites amongst skin color but as long as she gives freely of her money, time, effort and supports her husband/son/grandson/nephew no matter what she's cool. However, the black woman who loves her blackness yet turns an abusive lover over to the police is usually called a sell-out for "putting yet another black man in the white man's prison system". It's different rules for us.
 

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Just who decided Hispanics, puerto ricans, Mexicans aren't "black"? Along with Indians, Haitians, etc.... You never hear a white person say thw Irish arent white, or British, or French or Russian, Italians if their pale they all in it together. Who labeled and disenfranchised us? And why would we continue to subscribe to it?

Although I don't think the Latina knew what the black lady was saying, you can't demean an entire group of men to a sexual object. You can but its off putting. But I think the Latina was coming from a sincere place she appreciates the masculinity the integrity and soul of us strong black men.:jawalrus:

I don't discriminate come get dis Mandingo :blessed: come to papi chulo come chupar mis huevos :shaq:
Black means African descended, Mexicans and Indians are not descended from Africans and are obviously not black people. There are a lot of black Puerto Ricans and most Puerto Ricans have partial black ancestry, but the average Puerto Rican does not have enough black ancestry or look black enough to be considered black.

Also, nobody says Haitians aren't black
 

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Technically everybody fetishizes one another. When men talk about liking women with big asses that in a way is fetishizing just like women saying they like men with nice abs.



lol I was on my phone... autocorrect or I can't spell. Either way I ain't the smartest nikka either. Spelling and grammar police geez.


But still, everybody has a taste. Doesn't make it irrational, or over the top. Women fetishize nikkas with men money and power right? Men fetishize beauty right?
 

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lol I was on my phone... autocorrect or I can't spell. Either way I ain't the smartest nikka either. Spelling and grammar police geez.


But still, everybody has a taste. Doesn't make it irrational, or over the top. Women fetishize nikkas with men money and power right? Men fetishize beauty right?


Not all women are looking for a man with money. Some people fall in love for depth of personality, mutual interests and just all around who a person is.

The reason love doesn't last is because people objectify/fetishize a person instead of actually loving them.
 
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