I don't think you're being broad enough and are being too particular
I'm being broad because the point is more general.
Is the contention that less "modest" people are more deserving of being violated?
Why is she not modest in her sexual proclivities if she deployed them in private, with the expectation of privacy?
I think its safe to assume women who send nudes are aware its a good chance you may show them to your homies at some point. Or another woman may go through the phone and see them,it happens all the time. Theres really nothing else a man can do with a still photo,at least no me. I couldn't even imagine jacking off to a still photo in 2019 where theres video of naked women readily available. But who knows,I guess some nikkas don't have good imaginations and need assistance with pics of their ol lady. I don't think women send pics knowing for certain that they won't be seen by anybody,she just doesn't want them seen by everybody.