BIIIIIIIINGO!!!!I notice when women get to a certain age they often complain about encountering men who don’t take care of themselves or don’t “do the work” or some other bullshyt like that.
Not realizing that men who do take care of themselves and are healthy physically and emotionally would NEVER date them. So really they want men who are the exact type of men they have EARNED to completely alter who they are for an older woman who never once prioritized a man and his well-being.
You’re absolutely right.
I was about to say, either you’re telling the world you’re attracting bum dude/d!ck back to back, or you’re so unappealing multiple men who seem ok suddenly under perform when they are with you.
I was always taught that the person in the mirror is the common denominator

As crazy as ppl say she is (and I do not agree), even if Halle Berry were to be single again I promise you at 50something she wouldn’t have to worry about finding a man who can’t make it happen in the bedroom. She’s beautiful and a health nut so she’s still going to pull good looking men.
Leslie…doesn’t necessarily objectively consider the type of men she may be able to pull. And that’s the best way I can put it.

A lot of people, but in this case women, don’t do the work they expect the opposite sex to do.
Ain’t nothing about her in this clip giving off sexy. She is the SAME AGE as Halle Berry, Salma Hayek, ELISE NEALE, Nia Long, etc.
This is why I still woke up @ 5 am on my day off to hit a cardio class this morning. Leslie is delusional.
Elise Neal can talk that shyt. Not her.
@Neo The Resurrected ONE Per our discussion about fitness last week, I did get back in the groove and hit the gym 5 days this week
