The reason why some women have inflated egos is because men don’t hold women accountable when necessary. Men treat women like children and children aren’t held accountable for their actions, so it isn’t a surprise that some women enter the dating world feeling themselves.
OP, how you will be treated is based on how much a woman is attracted to you. Never ever believe a woman who says that looks don’t matter because it does! Many of them want that instant spark and I mean instant! If she doesn’t get it, then she will mentally check out on sight as well as treat you less that what you probably deserve to be treated.
Unfortunately, most relationships start off based on lust, on both sides, which may morph into love, if it gets there. Also, some women aren’t willing nor able to provide (in)tangibles, especially in the beginning stages. Some practice the risk averse approach and know that in our society, it is expected for the man to put in most of the work and if a woman likes what a man is offering her, then she may begin to do her part to get things going..Basically, the man takes the risk which may or may not bear fruits for his labor.