There's been a concerned effort, in the last 40 years, to push female empowerment initiatives. While this isn't inherently bad, despite what he-man women haters bytch about, there hasn't been the equivalent movement for men. In some cases, there's been the opposite. Men know more about toxic masculinity than positive masculinity. That's teaching someone how to take a life and expecting them to save lives.
Its left left the door open for grifters and guys operating on pre-80s social dynamics to post 2010 women. Women are confused why men aren't getting with the program, then mistake it for malice while men are confused why aren't behaving like their father said they would and so they blame the culture.
Cultural growing pains. White vs non-white, gay vs straight and even trans

relationships are going roughly the same shyt